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Im actually concerned that your wife isnt being honest about her sexuality. Or that this could turn into a domination type situation. You need to get her to talk about it. I am married to a cder who...

I believe it's mostly your mindset. As cders, you gals mostly have to struggle for time to dress up and be feminine. Where we GG's get to be female. It's who we are, and we do "have the right parts."...

I've told her many times I am proud of her spirit and style. I've taught her that she should never let anyone put her down, that she is a beautiful person inside and out.

She has always been very mature. Now I do realize she has no idea of the real ramifications and I will talk to her. But her best friend has an uncle who crossdresses and is also a drag queen. Her...

Be prepared for negative reactions. I think you're doing this a little "too in their face", but only you know your family well enough. Think about it carefully.

Our 11 year old daughter put 2 and 2 together and called me out on daddy dressing. She had found clothes that she knew would never fit me, and one day he didn't get all the make-up off and forgot to...

Hi Karen-

Although I am a gg, you sound exactly like my husband in your desires. It changes on the daily with him. Sometimes it's sexual, other times it's not, he just wants to go out and strut...

I would let her know that the dress means a lot to you, and that you don't want it stretched out. Because she is a gg, her shape s different than yours and you want the dress to fit you right. I...

Actually the problem started days before the injury. He just hurt himself on the same day I was going to speak to him about issues. However, he is in so much pain that intimacy of any kind hurts.

I'm going to have to remember to use your wife's comment the next time someone starts on my husband while he's dressed. I could never have thought that up on my own.

My husband loves to take or wear clothes to his job site (he goes in early). He then prances around the job site taking pics and video. I've told him time and again that one day someone is going to...

Due to a work injury yesterday, all bets are off. He fell off a ladder from 12 ft up and landed on his right side on a support beam. He is out of commission for now. But as soon as he's better,...

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We talked, and at first he felt attacked, even though I made sure to use "I feel" and "I think" instead of putting it on him. He tried to play the victim. He tried to blame me. He used...

I would never give him an ultimatum. I accepted him as he/she is. I love both sides. He's just gone deep into it and I wanna pull him back a bit. I knew the time would come, just didn't know it would...

Thank you all for the responses. I am accepting and I did fall into the pink fog with him, but now it's kinda wearing off and I need my needs met. It's certainly a tricky path to deal with. I'm...

He has been a cd all his life pretty much. We were together for 14 years before I found out. I realize now that I know, he can be more free, but he has not been giving me as much attention as he used...

I know that I've shared a little bit of my hesitation recently. But I'm starting to feel like Srey (husband's femme name) is taking over. It's been all about dressing lately and. I'm feeling like...

Kim-
I had trouble for a long time getting my husband to be more"manly" in bed. This was before I knew about his cd'ing. After I found out, it made me realize what I had missed all those years....

That's what I feel, but then there's that lingering guilt. But then I feel like we deserve this time.

I love that my husband crossdresses, and I enjoy going out with him. Lately though, it's been all he thinks about, says and does..... To the point our kids spend every weekend and more with a family...

I'm a thicker gg, I'm 4'10" and weigh 150. It's hard for anything to fit right. I'm always adjusting and fixing things. Sometimes makes me resent the social "requirement" to look a certain way, and...

Shaving his legs was followed by a shopping trip and several new items. He needed femme therapy! Nothing but smiles since we shaved his legs. New wig, and a nice dress and he even went for some...

I got it out of him. He wanted to shave his legs to wear a mini skirt and had no idea how I'd react. So I grabbed the shaver and started shaving for him. He was so excited!

Actually this man has saved me from a lifetime of abuse and drugs. I owe him my life. BUT I also love him for who he is and I couldn't ask for a sweeter kinder man. He is also my best friend/wife. He...

He is still very insecure about his cd'ing. The last month he has gone out for the first time fully dressed. He is In the stage now, I believe, that he's not sure how far to go with it. I want to...