For me, I've always felt changing my voice would be an essential part of going out en femme in public. As an adult male, since puberty my vocal range, particularly when singing, had been from a deep...
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For me, I've always felt changing my voice would be an essential part of going out en femme in public. As an adult male, since puberty my vocal range, particularly when singing, had been from a deep...
When I was still married, there were several times my wife asked me to put on one of her skirts or dresses, but it was primarily just so she could pin the hem to finish sewing or altering the dress....
I definitely feminized my voice. Eight years later it is still a work in progress. But even though I will sometimes get called ‘sir’ on the phone, in person, my voice only rarely outs me.
I felt...
From when I first started crossdressing, in 2014, I was going out 2-4 times a week cross dressed, to bars and nightclubs and music venues. As that time progressed, I also started going to...
Lots of us are out there. I see others fairly frequently now. More than I used to. And a lot of us, even when we don’t pass well to our own judgement, are managing to at least blend and be accepted....
That is one reason I stayed in the closet and did not even consider leaving my house in visibly girly attire until after my wife passed away and I was single again. But I did do on-line roleplaying...
I have made some amazing progress in my journey, I will admit.
Photo in the red blouse is 2014, cross dressing with a bad wig and cheap breast forms, just about to go out in public for the first...
I used to post a lot here. That was mostly when I was still trying to figure out my life, and my needs.
I was born with a male body, but over time I proved to have a mind which was much more on...
I think I lost ‘the fear’ just a few months after going out in public as Ceera. The turning point probably was when the local lesbian community openly accepted me as female, even though I admitted I...
I would agree that having the courage and freedom to dress however you choose, coupled with being able to go out in public, is a huge boon in determing ones gender identity.
For me, it happened in...
For my sister, it was finding my girl side’s Facebook page. She hadn’t known before that, and seeing me dolled up and going out socially really shocked her.
The first venue I went to publicly while cross dressed, back in 2014, was an LGBTQ nightclub, on their Saturday drag show nights. I figured, and I was right, that anyone at a club that was hosting a...
I am speaking as one who has been in your state - a male wearing breast forms in a bra, and also now as someone who has had her top surgery, and now has real breasts to contain with my bras. I have...
I was about 8 years old when I first tried on some of my mom’s slips and other clothes, filched from the basement laundry room dryer. Liked how it felt, but kept nothing, and had no intention of...
Best: Unexpectedly caught by my back fence neighbor, when I was about to head out to the mall, en femme. She knocked at the door to ask me about some plans for replacing the fence between our...
My daughter and I will do a two hour drive to celebrate with my two sisters in law and their families. They are the older sisters of my late wife, and that whole side of the family is very accepting...
I’ll chime in with the others voicing the opinion that she may have been amused, but her comment sounds like she was trying to be pleasant and encouraging. Her response certainly was not mean or...
A few of my ‘defining moments’ for realizing I really am passing:
* Early in my crossdressing days, at a point where I only went out late at night, to go to a neighborhood LGBTQ nightclub, I...
Simply by understanding and accepting that there are plenty of cisgender women who are even taller! Own it, and rock the ‘tall amazon look’.
Not too hard for me, since I only started under dressing in 2012, and fully cross dressing in 2014. So my oldest stuff is from only 9 years ago.
First skirt? Yes, though I shortened it at one...
Not in the slightest! But if you were to meet me, you’d swear I could be no older than my early 40’s, and on a good day, I can pass for being in my 20’s. (I seriously got carded for buying booze with...
For a period of several years, while I was living a gender-fluid duality, my pronouns depended on my presentation. Boobs and long hair meant She/her/hers, while a flat chest and obvious hair loss...
I have had several, but here is the tale of the first.
I came out of the closet quite late in life. knew I was at least bi since high school, but I repressed all the urges until I was over 50! But...
Now that I have had my top surgery, yes. I now have a 45-32-42 figure, and am 5’ 10” tall and 180 pounds, which makes me a tall Amazon of a woman, but definitely feminine. Haven’t had the lower...
I’m most of the way through MtF medical transition, so pretty close to 100% female/feminine now.