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I'm sure where you fall affects your perspective on quite a bit about gender roles.

The thing is, that top and dominant don't mean the same thing. Same with bottom and submissive. It is the point...

I totally agree. I've had this argument with people. I don't believe any act is inherently submissive it's all about the dynamic. Why couldn't pegging be just as equal as intercourse?

I have to agree with everything that Reine said. Except about the fantasy...you gals go on, that doesn't sound fun to me at all:)

It's interesting that people identify feelings as "feeling like a...

Nope, I get that those are attitudes people mention, but they don't make any sense to me. Also, what you're saying is boils sex down to only one act putting a penis in... But that is not the full...

Thank you Paula. I'm sorry that it hasn't gone better for you. I hope that there are a few friends who turn out to be good ones and who stick around.

This is not the thread for anyone to talk...

Thank you everyone. I appreciate your sharing. I am not surprised to hear that the more comfortable it is for you and the more sure and casual you are when you express it the better people react.
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Thank you everyone. I see quite a bit of stuff that makes my head want to explode but I don't think it's fair to ask a question and then get on people about their answers. So I will just say that...

Thank you Reine, I appreciate and agree with your post completely.

I don't play games. The women I know don't "play hard to get" they are conscious of their physical and emotional safety, they...

I think you'll find a significant number of GGs who would be offended by the idea that "most GG girls" are "playing hard to get"

Also, I would love for you to chime in over on the other thread...

Good thing I'm not interested in statistics then.

Is that your way of answering that you won't be answering?

I have seen many people on these forums say things about being treated like a woman.

So my question is, what does that mean do you?

and where did you get that perception?

First, I am...

When you have come out* to people what has worked well?

Also were there things you noticed that did not work out well?

I'm not speaking of the persons reactions, I'm speaking of the way you did...

This happens to me all of the time. I hear about women as back biting jealous harpies and I wonder...where are these women? I don't know any of them. I hear about men who are sexist homophobic...

These are all very interesting, thank you. I hope more people will add their thoughts.

I find it interesting as a side not that people are mentioning man bashing in this thread when I've seen way...

I once asked how everyone feels about women, but a thread I was just reading got me wondering.

What is your opinion of men?

If you have interacted with men presenting as both male and female...

I just youtubed and watched about the vessel with the pestle, I think the whole movie would drive me nuts! My husband will love it.

I found in my previous job I had to care for the process not...

Excellent point. I have been rather surprised to notice in my time on this forum so far how different the perspective is of many here from what I would have thought would be easy to notice once...

The stereotypes deserve to die!

What did you do with the cold readings to make people happy?

Giacamo...you mean because after you say fool~ish things you'll need to be able to race away?

I can't speak for Reine and I am absolutely against ever asking someone what they were wearing in connection with being harassed or assaulted.

The reality is that if you are female and you dress...

I was wondering about your avatar.

A fool is a fantastic thing to be. In Tarot the fool is the beginning, it is the fresh new start. The fool is the one who isn't holding onto the past.

I...

That sounds like wonderful progress!

Though I think that changing therapists because it's a challenge for her to get to seems like odd priorities for her to have to me. If the therapist you are...

Definitely see if she is willing to join the forum and then join us in the FAB forum.

Also, I think that if you make sure that you show her that this is not more important than your relationship...

It was a shock to me, I had stayed over a friends house and borrowed his shirt I had never worn anything that tight out and about before. At least the one guy didn't crash his car:battingeyelashes:
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Shoot, why would I care if they were bigger than mine? Why would I be bothered by someone else's features or clothing?

Hell, I made a man fall down a flight of stairs one time just with the right...

I see two possibilities that you may wish to consider.

The first has been mentioned already, that it is something going on with her. Possibly menopause. She may be not feeling it right now and be...