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I thought this was very sound advice and stated more succinctly than I can remember. It does however, raise the question of a very common complication: A young man who has intermittently...

Due to a trauma, I had one of my testicles removed quite a few years ago. At one point, my doctor tested my testosterone level and found it to be quite low. She suggested that I could benefit from...

Dear Sabrina, I understand and sympathize with your feelings, but if anyone had achieved the situation you desire, I'm afraid they wouldn't be reading this board. Still, I wish you the best.
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I've just retired after many years working in the technical world. I never had your dilemma, but I do know of one transwoman who was a senior editor of one of our trade magazines. She was nice...

US Navy, 1963 - 67. Aviation Electronics Tech, Radar. Spent a year on Midway Island maintaining airborne search radar and two years as a tail hook sailor (A4's) including two Westpac (Vietnam)...

I thought Tina B's post was both compassionate and insightful, but I also thought that Sometimes Steffi's comment that "I also had my CDing discovered rather than disclosed," was very telling.
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I'm surprised. Canadians are usually much more sensible than their southern neighbors. I live in San Diego, California, and we've had a fairly large LGBT population, and pride parades for many...

E. Watched the Tony awards and another episode of House of Cards.

There are so many nice trouser socks (plain or patterned, textured or smooth, and some even quite sheer), they're my go-to socks. For summer, there are lots of nice androgynous looking sandals that...

Lovely! Just lovely.

No offense, but I suspect that many CDers describe it as "just a hobby" to defuse the emotional impact when telling their SO. If it's *just* a hobby, like collecting stamps or restoring old...

When I went through puberty my nipples became very sensitive/erogenous. My left side is much more sensitive and I've come very close to the big O just from stimulation, lovingly applied. My right...

I guess I'm a 2 or 3. Panties are my only underwear, and I prefer nylon or satin sleep shirts for bed. Nylon trouser socks, a few discreet tops and pants, subtle makeup (rarely), long hair (what's...

As a kid, I also suffered from "Catholic Syndrome." I struggled with huge guilt -- not from crossdressing, exactly, but from masturbation. I was told it was a mortal sin that could send you straight...

Original Dove soap -- the one with the cold cream scent. Still available, and still a potent reminder to me.
Old Style hair spray and setting lotions. They've apparently all been reformulated, cuz I...

You can never tell what sort of post is going to simply ignite everyone on the board to respond -- even confirmed lurkers like me. Here's mine:

I have a messed up back, and moving around in bed...

I think I understand, Andrea; as a youngster, I felt the same way about cigarettes. It's obvious, though, that the feelings are entirely based in our psyches. I could light up a Marlboro in boy mode,...

Well before I reached puberty, I watched a lot of old black-and-white movies on TV, including many film noir classics. A setting that was repeated again and again featured the female lead (Lana...

Dear Leigh:
I'm a day late seeing your message (I only visit here infrequently), but your problem made me dig up a message I sent some years ago to a friend. I hope I'm not being presumptuous, and...

Almost 17 years. As a young teen, I discovered my mother’s lingerie drawer, and a bit later, her makeup. The first time I saw my reflection in a pink nylon full slip with poorly applied mascara,...

I don't know why this occurred to me, but it did: If it were suddenly just a normal thing for men to wear skirts, I suspect that a greater percentage of men would wear them than women. Of course...

She can no more select her turn-ons and turn-offs than you can select whether you want to CD or not. Hard as it may be to fathom, some women are attracted to men with body hair. Of course you will...

I agree with those who say you 've got to pick your battles and your battlegrounds, but in the context of a business meeting, as the OP described it, this is a no-brainer.

You don't need to get...

Interesting. Nearly two dozen answers and scarcely more than a passing mention of love -- yours for her, or hers for you. If that ingredient is in the mix, a couple can accommodate themselves to a...

Quite a few years ago, not long after I had come out to my wife, we visited an Olga lingerie outlet store. One of the things I found there that I thought was very sexy was a pair of reversible...