So, if you're so concerned about being caught....why were you putting on a bra at work...? Perplexing indeed.
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So, if you're so concerned about being caught....why were you putting on a bra at work...? Perplexing indeed.
Splendid advice provided on Shelly Preston's link. Confessing is always a risk. My wife and I have been married for almost 30 years and I confessed after 25 years. Five years on, my crossdressing...
No, but like so many others, I would love to be much younger and more feminine in my appearance. It would be wonderful to be able to slip on a slinky size 8 dress and be able to pass...
Yep, it's a risk telling your girlfriend of 2 weeks but not in comparison of telling your wife of 25 years. I wish I had told my wife about my crossdressing when she was still my girlfriend. ...
Why does this thread irritate me so much?...Is it because it's totally irrelevant to this forum or is it that the originator has some bizzare agenda?
I honestly don't see the big deal with being asked if I was gay and frankly, I doubt too many people would actually ask that question anyway. So yeah, fear of that question does make little sense. I...
Gee, aren't we all a bit sensitive? There's hardly a subject or stereotype that hasn't been lampooned at some time or another. My sense of humour and the appreciation of the ridiculous is my...
If I had my time over, I would definately tell my wife to be about my CDing before I married her. I waited for 25 years before I said anything and that was a mistake I very much regret. Your wife...
No doubt, I would choose female...But I'd probably be lesbian...Men just don't do it for me
Good for you. I can really relate to just how you felt. I don't think there is any trick to getting out...it's a matter of gaining confidence by taking small steps at a time. Next time a walk...
What a great thread. Well done, I love your approach to what many of us would see as the living end!!
B. But happy to tell them I am a Crossdresser...or if you please..a Transvestite.
Frankly this type of thread annoys the heck out of me. I can't believe anyone would stand there for 10 minutes under those circumstances??? But I would like to ask how many of us have been the...
My alarm bells are ringing. This doesn't sound like a step towards acceptance to me at all. Seems to me that your wife is setting you up. But, I also get the impression that you would be happy to...
Immediately after telling my wife about my crossdressing we sought the services of a professional councellor. It is the best thing we could have done. Next challenge for you is to find a good...
I reckon you were lucky....It's not CDer season
Interesting that you would prefer to be seen as gay than a crossdresser! Perhaps a reflection on what is acceptable in society?
I am rapidly coming to the conclusion that many (not all) crossdressers really have a deep desire to be "caught" or at least get a huge kick out of flirting with possibility. I this right? Any...
There's lots of good advice here and I'm sure you'll find it helpful. Perhaps I can add just a little based on my own experience.....When I first told my wife about my crossdressing 3 years ago she...
Yes, definitely and only decided that recently after a lot of thought. But circumstances (not money so much) dictate that it just isn't feasible. Otherwise, I would be off to the doctor's today.
I think it takes a lot of work for a man to move like a woman. Men tend to look heavy while women have a float....well most do. And a woman's posture is very different too. These are things to...
I definitely find it a turn on being dressed and I get a buzz out of posting pictures of myself, but not sure looking in the mirror or looking at pictures of myself is a sexual turn on. So, I guess...
Chuckle....it's just moving in to summer here in Australia. Can't wait to slip into the sun dress and prance about,,,wheeeeeeeee
My preference would be to tell my wife first. But whoever you tell, you should be prepared. You need to have all the answers to the questions you will be asked. Your wife will probably be quite...
First of all my wife knows about my crossdressing so no issue at home. I first started shaving and epilating not long after I had a varicose vein surgery. I had to shave the affected leg before the...