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  1. "...something going on with the adrenaline...

    "...something going on with the adrenaline rush..."

    Absolutely, but that rush, and the need to pursue it, is something quite apart from what drives the gender non-conforming behavior. I believe...
  2. Thread: So confused

    by Aunt Kelly
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    If you want help in sorting this out, engage a...

    If you want help in sorting this out, engage a qualified therapist. Period.
    Don't get me wrong. You've received lots of helpful advice here already, but us telling you about our experiences is not...
  3. Never. I figured out early on that I was LESS...

    Never. I figured out early on that I was LESS happy when I denied myself, and unlike drugs and alcohol, i was happier, no matter how much i "indulged".
    The comparison remains as specious as ever.
  4. Meaning he has expressed ignorant and hateful...

    Meaning he has expressed ignorant and hateful views of things he does not understand.

    Assuming he is not yet an adult...
    I'd start there. Leave yourself out of it for now. You are his father....
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    Amen! Why do some people continue to equate TG...

    Amen!

    Why do some people continue to equate TG tendencies to things like drugs, alcohol and porn? I can, almost, understand it from the masses, but people here are supposed to be a bit more...
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    A better example of the whole "love is love"...

    A better example of the whole "love is love" concept, I have never seen. Very happy for you, Bobbi.
  7. I agree with GretchenM. Look......

    I agree with GretchenM.

    Look... "Understanding" is a two way street. You have every right to ask for your spouse's understanding, but you should be clear on what you're asking her to understand....
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    Could not agree more. You will on your turf, but...

    Could not agree more. You will on your turf, but that also means that there's pretty much nowhere to retreat to, should your anxiety get the best of you. If you are not completely confident in your...
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    Some of us just have RBF...

    Some of us just have RBF. We were born this way. :straightface:
  10. Dutchess has nailed it. Not a surprise, since she...

    Dutchess has nailed it. Not a surprise, since she has had the poor fortune to live through it. What she describes is textbook addiction. Why anyone would consider that less "offensive" than...
  11. IMO, Tri-Ess has almost outlived it's usefulness....

    IMO, Tri-Ess has almost outlived it's usefulness. When it came into being, CDing was still a crime in many places. The organization provided safety and support for it's members and their spouses. I...
  12. Qualified help, as in qualified to deal with...

    Qualified help, as in qualified to deal with gender issues, is important here. This may well be garden variety clinical depression. A waxing and waning libido would line up with that, and if there's...
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    Agree with Shelly. If you're using for play or...

    Agree with Shelly. If you're using for play or fantasy purposes, I think it's great fun. That includes avatar pictures here. Lots of members here are having fun with their "hobby", and I say that...
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    Ask the vendor. He/she should know enough about...

    Ask the vendor. He/she should know enough about the products they sell to answer basic durability questions. If they don't, stop shopping at Home Depot. :)
  15. Thread: Wondering

    by Aunt Kelly
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    Gender identity most certainly is recognized by...

    Gender identity most certainly is recognized by the APA (and virtually every organization whose mission is to study and understand such things), though I'd challenge you to provide any citation that...
  16. Thread: Wondering

    by Aunt Kelly
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    "cross-dressing n. the process or habit of...

    "cross-dressing
    n. the process or habit of putting on the clothes of the opposite sex. It is done for a variety of reasons, for example, as part of a performance, as social commentary, or for...
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    Damn... Here we go again with the "labels"...

    Damn... Here we go again with the "labels" debate...

    Labels and, indeed, the definition of any noun, are tools we use to communicate. They work as such by convention, and only to the degree that a...
  18. Sticky: Eventually, we're going to see "bathroom bills"...

    Eventually, we're going to see "bathroom bills" viewed as the hate crime that they are. As I've heard Judge Fry put it, all the things that such laws purport to protect "our wives and daughters"...
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    The "why" seems pretty simple to me. No matter...

    The "why" seems pretty simple to me. No matter where you consider yourself to be on the TG "spectrum", that place you occupy there is a part of who you are. Generally, those close to us, family and...
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    There's a key piece of information left out here....

    There's a key piece of information left out here. What do you want/need? Is clothing enough, or not? The two of you need to understand that before you can reach an accommodation that works for both...
  21. So... HRT is a crossdressing thing now? I guess...

    So... HRT is a crossdressing thing now?
    I guess that I'm a little out of touch.
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    That's my take on it, too. Just another fake...

    That's my take on it, too. Just another fake reality show, complete with manufactured drama.
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    I expect that I will get skewered for my view,...

    I expect that I will get skewered for my view, but I have seen enough on this forum to be convinced of it's accuracy...

    Most of the self-identified crossdressers here will readily point out that...
  24. As others have shared, practice is the most...

    As others have shared, practice is the most important thing in achieving a satisfying result. It is only through practice, trial and error, that one can discover the combination of tools, techniques...
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    I do love the retro 50s and 60s fashion, but at...

    I do love the retro 50s and 60s fashion, but at my age, that would mean looking more like Mrs. Drysdale than June Cleaver. So I'll stick to the "contemporary eccentric old aunt" look.😊
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