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I think lots of us go through the "Barbie" phase then realize that you don't have to have long blonde hair, huge boobs and stillettos to be feminine. Although it's kind of fun!

After a while, less...

I email them and ask what we have in common that we should be friends?

I've had tons of people read me. I try to smile vaguely, look at something far away, and keep walking. I always wear sunglasses in the daytime.

The only scary time was years ago after leaving a...

Another one through a DUI checkpoint. I was hyperventilating by the time the State Trooper came to my window. But he took my license and registration, asked me where I'd been and where I was headed,...

I wasn't quite as put together (only some lipstick and it was my sister's denim skirt and blouse and a stolen bra) but my mother used the same trick and I had the same result. She was not happy or...

Ditto, there are lots of things to find out about another person when you first start dating and sometimes it doesn't work out.

If things were working, I would show them pictures of me from...

No, but sometimes my wife borrows my breast forms. I don't mind, because she looks amazing in a short skirt and huge boobs!

She'd asked and I said no but I could tell she was concerned. Sometimes we tend to assume that other people know what we know. For example, most men and women assume MTF crossdressers are gay.

I...

No, but after wearing her bras for a while I took one from a neighbors laundry. My mom was po'd when she found it because this neighbor was a bit on the busty side so it meant I had been wearing...

I was at my brother's house and bent over to pick something up. My 6yo niece asked "Uncle Dana why do you have pink underwear on?" I just said it was read. My brother, who has known about my cross...

I had a GG friend who was a Lesbian. I'd been her "cover date" many times at various events.

When I started going out a lot and even thinking about going full-time, I told her about the whole...

When I was in my 30's and single I used to go out a lot around Halloween. But I'd start about two weeks before, and end around Thanksgiving: total pink fog.

Walked into work one day in early...

I agree with this. Going out with another CD seems to guaranty you both get read in my experience, granted that's not the end of the world. When I was in my early 30's I knew some GG's who would go...

Any support groups in your area? Most are incredibly helpful.

Not quite. In my early 30's I had two GG friends and if they were around and I was going out, I'd come by their place for inspection. They would usually completely change around my hair and makeup...

Have you tried just trimming a little back every month or so, to make it shorter and thinner? Most women don't miss hairy legs.

First of all, a quick sense of humor is a very valuable survival skill - just wait until you run into a pack of teenage girls!

Second, a special-needs person has to be treated respectfully, even...

At my condo while single I only had one neighbor who would see me going to and from the car. First time at Halloween but other times later. Her husband didn't like it at all, but I only ever saw him...

When I first started I would drive over to a department store 10 miles away or more and buy lingerie, stockings etc. I would usually buy dresses, purses and jewelry at Goodwill or Salvation Army,...

When I was 18 I knew I was a cross dresser but didn't have any satisfactory relationships with girlfriends and was still a virgin. And my parents, who had busted me a number of times either en femme...

When I was single and living alone, I was almost compeltely finished getting dressed to go out. It was a few days before Halloween - not really a night that there would be parties.

A friend of...