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We will be married in a little over a month.

No I don't dress 24/7. Not at all, and I'm ok with that. There are times when I feel more drawn to my feminine side (pink fog!), but I have generally found a balance. For me, it's the balance of...

Hello friends and fellow CDers. It's been awhile since I've posted anything around here, but I thought perhaps some of you would be interested to know how myself and my fiance Gigi are doing.
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It's experiencing the fantasy in reality. But it's really my ego taking control. I find myself quite obsessed when I am in the fog and it's not unlike other addictions; chemicals in our brains....

Recent happenings in my life have brought me to the point of finally telling them. The idea of telling them scared me to death and it took me a long time to build up enough confidence to do so.
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I kept my CDing a secret for about 25 years until I finally told my girlfriend at the time when our relationship was collapsing. Coming out and being honest brought a new level of intimacy and trust...

I just want to add that a picture of me en femme from halloween found it's way to my facebook page, so really anyone I have friended and friends of friends have potentially seen me en femme. ...

I have lost count. Maybe 30-40 people know now. I haven't gotten a single negative response. Though, I will say, that everyone I have told were people that I trusted and sort of expected to support...

I completely understand you and feel very similar at times. Your second attempt I think is a much better one. I have found that embracing my femme side, without trying to label it or figure out WHY...

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I'm really sorry to hear how she has reacted. And as much pain as you're going through, I think you will grow and be a better person by staying true to yourself. You will find someone that accepts...

I don't think going to a therapist is a waste. Granted, I don't have that much experience, but I will say that going to see a therapist when I did was very helpful. What I realize in retrospect was...

I'd say be totally honest about everything. Lay it all out. If she can't accept you for who you are, then it will not work and you're both better off parting ways. It's unfortunate that your CDing...

I started a new job early last year that allowed me to used headphones while I work. Instead of listening to music, I started bibliotherapy and became very interested in self-help books and...

When I first started learning more about why I dressed, I thought this was all there was to it...a fetish. As I discovered more and more people like myself, I came to terms with and accepted that...

You're damn right you're not ill! Self-acceptance, actually more than that...was the first step in becoming my true self. Embracing my CDing has completely changed my life for the better and made...

About 3 years ago, I told my girlfriend at the time. She was the first person I had ever told in my entire life. Little did I know how much my life would change over the next 3 years. I can...

Thank you all so much.

The unexpected year that transformed me into who I am. And to top it all off I just had the best birthday and Christmas of my life. Christmas morning, I proposed to the love of my life and she said...

I don't think I am going to go entirety public. At least not in the form of a public announcement. Maybe I'll just have a few femme pics on FB and LGBT likes/interests. But most of the people I...

Tonight, I told a number of extended family members and friends. Quite a few of my friends and family already knew, but I felt like it was time. Today was significant for me as it marked 1 year...

It was a great night out. Here's pics from the outing and I talk about the experience.http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?202210-My-latest-outing&p=3313310#post3313310

Tomorrow night I'm taking a huge leap forward in my CD journey! Not only am I going to a different city than I have gone out in the past, but my best friends are going to see me en femme for the...

I had always fantasized about going to a department store and trying on dresses, but never had the nerve to do it. My SO, early in our relationship, took me shopping one day and picked out a few...

It's an amazing feeling of relief and liberation! Congratulations!