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I've heard of that - photographic film. Is it still available? How do you get the images off of it and onto your PC or tablet? LOL...
I was just today thinking of all the time I spent shooting...

So... you are wondering "where it should stop", but you've decided that you're "not going to transition". How is it that you're so sure of one thing but not the other? I do not mean to sound flip,...

I have heard it said that one's transition is a success once one has begun to collect BY friends. :)

After following this thread for a while, it occurs to me that we are talking about various values of "bad", when it comes to "bad experiences". No one wants to experience a genuinely dangerous...

Who cares? At that point, it won't much matter, will it? More to the point, if such a discovery were made, people would understand who you were; who you really were. That's not to say you need to...

Support/social groups are the way to go. Until we're able to gather in meat space once again, there's lots of time to find one or more groups that might be a good fit.

You raise an excellent point, Alexis. In addition to the earnest communication related by the OP, education, and the understanding and confidence that can be derived therefrom, is easily just as...

Thank you, Wren. It is this kind of clarity and honesty that is so often lacking in the posts here. Obviously, it is fair to say that for you, the term "fetish" is not accurate when describing your...

And for the nth time, why is calling a spade a pointy garden implement "interfering"?

That we both know who the character was is evidence of our... long experience. :)

Ms. De Carlo had quite the career before that TV series......

Oh... So they're all just suffering from undiagnosed gender dysphoria. That's an absurd notion, of course, but you seem to be trying to invalidate a perfectly accurate application of the term...

That's the point I am trying to make. If you allow yourself to be "marginalized" because of something that is a part of who you are, it's on you. We don't get to redefine a term because it makes us...

You're quite right. For many here, it's all about the clothes, and that certainly fits the broader definition of "fetish". If you're feeling "derided", however, for having a harmless fetish, that's...

First of all, Maria, that's some high quality communication you two have going. I'm reading between the lines a bit, but it seems to me that you are not quite sure about your sexuality. Mind you, I'm...

One word - cookies. Social media sites are very good at learning about you and your interests. Tracking cookies follow you everywhere, account or no. In the scenario you describe, you are ostensibly...

Transition has very little to do with what you wear. Period. And as Jean points out, it has nothing to do with what surgeries you've had. If you are living as the gender not AAB, legally and...

Lilly Munster. :)

That's what I'm saying. That group is seeking out sex with men who present as female. I can't speak to their rationale or desires, but there is very clearly a not-quite-straight component to their...

Good on you, Charlotte, for accepting who you are and for sharing that with others. You're helping the world understand and accept all gender non-conforming people, even if it's only in a small...

If you're into it for the sex, more power to you, but the fact is that most males, gay or straight, are not into CD's. Those that are often... confused. If you're to "manly", it breaks the illusion...

Leaving was the right move, but not because of embarrassment. Any vendor who would treat a paying customer that way does not deserve your business.

Amalou is quite right. Boors abound, especially the males, when travelling in packs of three or more, and where alcohol is free.
And yes, you do look great, but you are calling attention to...

Cindylouho,
The current body of thought, by those who make it their business to understand us, is to define gender dysphoria rather than force one into (or out of) a particular "box" like...

I would say that CD's certainly fall under the "T", but it must be said that we are (generally) poorly understood by the LGB community. Never mind the fact that all to many in the straight community...

Most of us here, myself included, are not qualified to answer your questions. Oh, you'll get lots of advice, and much of it will be worth exactly what you pay for it. Which brings me to the point I'm...