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HI Maggie,

First of all, you look absolutely lovely. And what a wonderful and heart warming story. I am truly happy for you. I really hope someday, soon, that your wife will be able to get past...

InStyle has been great for me. I like the product reviews with price comparisons. As well they have great fashion spreads and pages where they show how to accessorize. The mag is large and good value...

Kristine is so right. Now if only there was a sight as detailed as some of these mags were. Hmmm, food for thought.

Julia

No one cares anymore, many many men have earrings. just do it and when asked why, tell them because you wanted to, always have and finally decided to do it. No more explanation is required. Honest!
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Charlaine, I think you nailed it.

Also, GG's can dress sexy if the want, it's not a taboo whereas CD's are in some ways catching up with what they could never do. Obviously there is sexy for both...

Practicle for me. The reality is I am 6'3", broad shouldered and in the area of 220 lbs. Sexy isn't a realistic achievement. If I try to look sexy, I will simple draw unwanted attention to me....

Brandi tell us more as to why this is a delimna. You are going to a doctor. You are seeing a professional. Give him/her the same courtesy you expect from others. What is your goal? To shock your...

Jill. it's just a slump. You're likely just not in the mood in doing anything that requires much thought or effort. You'll regain your strength and be sooooooo happy you didn't get rid of your...

It's no that horrid, not in the least bit. Unless you want to mow the lawn wearing only your bra and panties or sleep with your heels on. That's when others doubt the validity of crossdressing. Who...

yard work in your bra and panties? Your neighbour catches you and joins you?

Come on. Sometimes I am truly dumbfounded.

J

They're kids. If you are uncomfortable with them being there when you are looking, then leave and return 5 minutes or so later. It's not like they live there. Personally, I have yet to experience...

You must have been cooking up from the inside!

J

This by far one of the better threads I have read here in a long while. Finally something though provoking and of real importance.

Although i have no children as of yet, and I better hurry up -...

...and join the mile high club while you're at it.

J

The other reason was a given, and the only reason why one would normally want to wear heels to bed.

J

In my opinion it's just as strange as a woman wearing heels while sleeping to bed. You're sleeping, what's the point? And there's no way you can convince me that's it comfortable.

Julia

Hi Erika,

Your post was beautiful and from the heart. Thank you. I love your idea for AUNTIE. it is definately something I feel is worht pursueing. Please keep me in the loop if anything develops....

I'm from Ontario and have notice many girls, including my GF wearing boots, usually for clubbing or going out shopping. I say go for it.

J

Steph we are all here as CD's, so disclosing what state/province, city or town you are in will do little in exposing your secret but will do wonders in allowing you to meet like minded individuals in...

Joanne,

You haven't told us what steps you have taken to determine you truly are someone with a gender identity disorder, and for the most part that isn't our business. However, based on your...

Well if you plan on transitioning then in my opinion, you simply have no choice but to tell her sooner than later about your true aspirations and prepare yourself for her possible shock and wanting...

I'm with Helen on this one. You had to know how your mother feels about things like men wearing nail polish. She you mom. So it should come as no surprise to you that she was shocked. While I applaud...

All I can say is be careful. It sounds like you will be in a very public place where families may be also. Some guests may be offended and cause trouble for you. Crossdressing in a restaurant is less...

...tacky, not for me.
J

I doubt you will loose interest, but it appears you are finding a sense of balance.

Julia