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Alleycat,

It's going to be OK--& I hope you'll relent jn your characterization of the great state of MIchigan.

Lily

Christina,

Go for it. You have a lot of support.

Lily

Brandy,

Frankly, I think CD's come in as many flavors as the rest of the world & the ability to modify identity by being a CD would seem to imply the ability to modify "normal" behavior. But...

Do any of you have the impulse to be very domestic: iron clothes, do the dishes, etc. play the "wife," or is all the focus on glamour? Just curious.

Lily

What's the best season for crossdressing, especially a closeted one? In summer there's plenty of daylight, too much, maybe. Though the clothes are nicer. Winter? Lots of darkness but too much...

Contrary to the experience of many of you, I didn't start dressing until my 40's. I remember being in Provincetown once & seeing a couple of CD's who were nowhere close to passing & I just wondered...

Allison,

What a powerful story with all its tears & joys. Whatever the heartbreaks, people seem to be surprisingly accepting & understanding.

Lily

Joanmarie,
Who knows why you did it? It might be that your unconscious was prodding you. Good luck with things.

Lily

Sweetie,

They're your ears. Very exciting to have them pierced. (This said by someone who still wears clip-ons.) You're going to love it, I'll bet.

Lily Rose