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    Thank you for sharing this, Victoria. You're...

    Thank you for sharing this, Victoria. You're quite right, of course, that it takes practice, and as you also share, professional guidance. Overcoming both the anatomical and learned differences...
  2. This sounds like a minefield of emotional issues....

    This sounds like a minefield of emotional issues. You both have issues that you must work on alone before you should consider tackling the one that might lie between you. I am NOT saying don't do it....
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    Sorry... Which "real world" would that be? The...

    Sorry... Which "real world" would that be? The one where deception, in pursuit of our selfish ends is effective? Please...
    Stef, I don't mean to be unkind. I was rooting for success, truly, but I...
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    I agree, and I'm sorry if I did not make it clear...

    I agree, and I'm sorry if I did not make it clear that the actual S&S that must be evaluated are a combination unique to each patient. Some of us have GD so severe that there is little need for a...
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    So does any reasonable person who wishes to...

    So does any reasonable person who wishes to communicate effectively. "Labels" are just words which those with a need do so have agreed upon. That you, or anyone for that matter, don't "like" them...
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    No one point in time s te and out in a lifetime...

    No one point in time s te and out in a lifetime on the TG spectrum, but there were a couple of milestones. At 38, I let go of the guilt and accepted. Around 58 it became clear that i was more than a...
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    Tracy, My citations came the APA and the DSM....

    Tracy,
    My citations came the APA and the DSM. That definition of GD is specific for a reason. It is the standard by which a diagnosis may be made, and appropriate treatment indicated, and in many...
  8. Depending on the size of your community, choice...

    Depending on the size of your community, choice of venue may be important. Choose according to the likelihood of meeting someone you know, and your
    tolerance for such a happening.
    That said, if...
  9. Indeed... As incongruous as it seems in a...

    Indeed... As incongruous as it seems in a community such as this one, ignorance, about the nature of gender dysphoria, abounds. Such ignorance hurts us all.
  10. The overwhelming body academic thought to the...

    The overwhelming body academic thought to the contrary. Beliefs and opinions, while freely available to all, are not the same as facts, and in this case virtually all of the facts point in a...
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    The fetish dressers are legion here, Stephanie....

    The fetish dressers are legion here, Stephanie. Leonal is clearly one of them. It is neither harsh nor negative to point out what is plain fact. Her departure would seem to indicate that she had not...
  12. As several have already said, be open and honest....

    As several have already said, be open and honest. You're paying handsomely to have a professional understand your issues and, hopefully, provide effective solutions. If you withhold, you are...
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    Let's get the pedantry out of the way up front......

    Let's get the pedantry out of the way up front... The Internet is "just a series of tubes", as Senator Steven's once naively put in. It has done nothing beyond enabling you to access knowledge that...
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    Wearing what women your age would wear is kinda...

    Wearing what women your age would wear is kinda the definition of the age appropriate look.
    If you, or anyone for that matter, wants to dress like someone 30 years their junior, or like a hooker,...
  15. Bobbie, Did you ask the bigot WHY he wanted you...

    Bobbie,
    Did you ask the bigot WHY he wanted you to never appear en fem at his home?
    Explicitly unwelcoming a friend deserves an explanation. You'd be amazed how effective that can be. Making...
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    Thank you so much for sharing this, Sidney. I...

    Thank you so much for sharing this, Sidney.

    I see two lessons here... One, behaving in a non-creepy manner and engaging with the SA's honestly and openly instantly removes all the possible...
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    Arguably, the store could have done a better job...

    Arguably, the store could have done a better job of training its employees, but the manager is to be commended for doing the right thing. Let us hope that manager is not taken to task for violating...
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    I have a little experience in dealing with cis...

    I have a little experience in dealing with cis women as TG woman. The majority of the time, when the interaction is anything more than a "Thank you..Next?" kind of exchange, the ladies light up. If...
  19. Thread: Fake ID's

    by Aunt Kelly
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    Fake ID is a bad idea. In some jurisdictions, if...

    Fake ID is a bad idea. In some jurisdictions, if not most, just being posession of a forged government ID is a serious crime.
    Now, credit cards are another matter. Mastercard recently announce that...
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    That's very true, Ressie. Blending is not a...

    That's very true, Ressie. Blending is not a requirement, IF you've got enough confidence to carry on in the face of the occasional smirks, giggles and wisecracks. It goes with the territory, ladies,...
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    Your response was perfect, Teresa. While the...

    Your response was perfect, Teresa. While the behavior at the other table was not overtly hostile, it wasn't exactly friendly. You, on the other hand, were. A smile can be disarming in the face of...
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    ...or the employee discount Stef will have access...

    ...or the employee discount Stef will have access to.
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    A potential employer, who had made overtures such...

    A potential employer, who had made overtures such as you describe is that you should seriously consider. That said, going to work every day, en femme, will be an issue at home. Work that out before...
  24. The explanation is pretty straightforward. CIS...

    The explanation is pretty straightforward. CIS women choose their clothes for different reasons than crossdressers use to choose their clothes. Crossdressers are satisfying a fantasy or fetish. CIS...
  25. Thread: At birth

    by Aunt Kelly
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    An armchair appraisal of the responses here leads...

    An armchair appraisal of the responses here leads to some interesting, if unscientific conclusions. Some of us felt different from the time we learned their was a difference. Others, not until...
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