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As others advised, move forward but slowly. A spouse likes it when you ask for their advice and now you two have a nice little secret between yourselves which I think helps a relationship. Bad part...

This would not end well in a lot of ways. If it's just a convenient way to get some things of your own, it may seem easy but the consequences would be huge about her finding out and the dressing up...

I don't think a salesperson would say no to a sale. Sounds like a great person which likely there are more than we think. In a sales position like that they see and hear a lot.

Is the disgust more to do with the shame and embarrassment? Having to keep a secret from close ones is terrible and we can all sympathize one way or another.

I hope you can sort things out, but...

I know a bit of what you are saying but I need my panties at least on my days off work. But I am like that with a lot of things. I will go all out on something but then not touch something for weeks.

Could have ended up very scary. The unfortunate side of going in public.

Lucky for you, I think more women would be open to this if they didn't feel, maybe ashamed or embarrassed if their friends found out. Confidence and trust is so important.

That is likely true. A lot more conversation will need to happen. But I wish you all the best.

To me she accepts it a bit, which is great, baby steps and open conversation hopefully.

Maybe she has a dominant side? You agreed to replace the wig because of looks, your input and hers or just...

I hope everything will turn around for you. Being positive is the greatest challenge at times.

In my first marriage when she was gone for a weekend or evening which was never often enough. I would make sure I washed the panties/clothing I wore so she wouldn't notice.

Oh so glad those days...

No, I enjoy being a man, and maybe all the benefits that it unfairly entitles us.

I may have answered "Why, do you like men in dresses?"

Good for you, sometimes the best comebacks are the ones we think of 10 minutes later.

I think in 100 years many like us will be having these same conversations unfortunately.

I've been out with panties a few years and now I don't even worry about it. It gives me such a nice feeling inside secretly knowing. Just have to be careful bending over, but really I'm caring about...