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Just to clarify a few of those points:
-I have been CDing for 18 years and have been wearing those things throughout that time. It did not begin coincident with the time I met my wife.
-my marriage...

Thanks Nicole.

Despite what some others have said or think, my marriage isn't on the rocks or on the brink. It's actually been quite good except for this point of contention in recent weeks. And...

Even throughout the past month, we've still maintained a healthy sex life. And while things are tense between us while discussing the dressing, usually a few hours later we're getting along fine...

Care to elaborate why? Do you mean free myself of her？ Or free her from me? Or both?

Also, I'm trying not to respond over-defensively, but isn't that a bit dismissive of everything good we do have...

Haha, it won't let me reply with a two word post, so I have to type this sentence. No kids.

With all due respect, there is still a great deal of love in our relationship. As for trust, we've had our share of issues with that (the cheating before we were married), and that took its toll,...

Hi, I'm dense sometimes, but I can't quite figure out which category you meant by "this", the category that does worry or the category that doesn't.

To be honest, before posting yesterday, I...

Hi Reine, while I would like to shave my legs because it simply looks nicer (either bare or in stockings, also I feel my primary fixation is on the legs), I don't do that because on more than one...

Thanks Lorileah.

I think at the time I found the compliments from guys innocent, that I was just appealing to my vanity, but I have since realized it is probably not and I have shut that down. As...

Thanks Reine. I didn't realize it at the time, but I do now realize that was a dangerous game. It is also why I have stopped that behavior. I don't want to do anything that I'm not prepared to be...

Hi Jess,

That is essentially where things had left off. I'm not second-guessing her words, but context means everything. However, I'll try and go forward this way.

Another issue that she...

Unfortunately she cannot. Her issue is that I'm doing it at all. She has said that merely the thought of me doing that bothers her. Further, I've asked her explicitly if my friendship with Bev...

Actually, this last weekend when she asked me to stop, it seemed like she was trying to bargain with me. Not only did she offer to meet with Bev and try to become friends, she also offered that if I...

That's never been at issue. For her she says it's just the thrill of the fling. But we still have a healthy sex life with each other

It started out when she started her job and was based in a different city than we were living in. I did not encourage her to do it, just said it was ok if she did.

Even though we're in the same...

Actually we have a sexually liberal marriage. On her side. She does sometimes meet men for flings, and it's fine with me. She is not quite able to handle me sleeping with other women. Which is ok...

I fully recognize that I have not been without fault. But i have cut out the bad behaviors, as i dont want to feel like a rotten liar anymore, and i dont want to be a cheater. But That's also why I...

You know, that thought has occurred to me. I've got my new friend Bev who I can talk to about dressing or my home life or anything and be totally and 100% candid, but my wife doesn't. She would be...

So I am 30 years old and have been dressing (primarily in stockings and high heels) for about 18 years.

It took me a while to figure out exactly who I was, but by my mid-20s I kind of figured it...