When I stand on Earth's surface, the sky is up and Earth is down. When I'm upright in a hole, Earth is in every direction, except up where the sky is, except when someone covers up the hole with...
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When I stand on Earth's surface, the sky is up and Earth is down. When I'm upright in a hole, Earth is in every direction, except up where the sky is, except when someone covers up the hole with...
Appropriate dressing in all dimensions (be it your age, the weather, the occasion or location, etc.) is not something only CDs have to deal with. You can choose to ignore it or be oblivious about it,...
No, the topic starter ultimately seems to talk about crossdressers in general, not the particular subset on crossdressers.com, and so are many respondents, but I may be wrong.
I don't really...
Insert inane "herp derp I just want to be me" comment here.
Firstly, I fully agree with Paula et alii on why crossdressers need to be more visible. Actually, most good posts in this thread seem...
Is it? When does this gender ID come to be? In utero? If it's foundational, does that mean it cannot change? Why not?
Is it wrong to say "I play a lot of video games because it's who I am"? At what point does something you passionately like become part of your identity? What does being 'something' actually mean? How...
That's what you get for being irrational.
I'm a 2π
It happens. A lot. No kinky stuff though and it's aimed at my face.
Now that's what I call dedication :D
Anyway, sometimes, you just have to improvise as a young and broke closeted crossdresser.
Isn't it lovely how, in this bizarro crossdressing world, the loss of interest in crossdressing is considered 'just a phase'? :D They're right though: we all have a strong pro-CD bias, but it...
Very interesting read, Paula, thanks for sharing. I also couldn't agree more with your own assessment in this thread.
I was afraid that this article would once again apply the following 'logic':...
No you're not paranoid, you're actually right. While it's not immediately apparent, it's still everywhere on CD.com. Most peeping toms on CD.com at least have the decency to pretend they're CDs...
Hah, welcome to the rest of the internet! The problem isn't Facebook, because this happens everywhere. Perverts are everywhere, CD.com is just squeaky-clean.
Dressed as a girl by your mother as a child and becoming a crossdresser in later life: what are the odds, right?
I always considered this one of those emasculation/feminisation fantasies some...
While I think everyone should set their own 'goals', I do consider padding a necessity for practically everyone if you want a decent presentation. 'Hourglass' may be too strong of a word, but women...
I haven't really experienced any real hate from gay men. As far as I know, the 'typical' gay man is about as knowledgeable and accepting of transgender people as any other cisgender person in...
Yes, read Mikell's post and read it again. You need to educate yourself, talk to a professional and stop having daydreams about HRT.
Nay. That song is the worst.
Is it a support group or a swinger club? I understand that cd's with partners have specific challenges that are not as interesting to discuss for single cd's, but that's very much your own problem,...
So when a person looks like a woman, identifies as a woman and may even be legally a woman, she can be 'technically male' (whatever that means) because of what may or may not be in her pants? Your...
Less hair in some places
More hair in other places
Softer skin
I can fake the rest if need be :D
Some here obviously live on a higher plane of existence where intrinsic femininity is something absolute, as to be understood by natal men who spent most of their lives living as men. Does it seem to...
How am I going to dress and put on my makeup without a mirror?
The answer is no for me. I need the visual feedback. I get somewhat anxious after a while.
I consider this a real possibility in many cases. The things we experience and read about lead to new insights and outlooks. You are not the same person you were one year ago, let alone ten. Your...