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    I have had several instances like that and they...

    I have had several instances like that and they always make me smile. Comments I make about someone on TV wearing a dress that really doesn't work on her and comment on why it doesn't work. The other...
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    Camilla, this subject is really quite common...

    Camilla, this subject is really quite common except people don't seem to want to talk about it for whatever reason. Been there, done that. But at 76 it is not such a big deal as it would be at 56 or...
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    First, I see you are new here. So welcome to the...

    First, I see you are new here. So welcome to the forum. It is a great resource to learn how others deal with this or live their lives with this behavior pattern.

    Debbie, this situation is...
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    Thank you Diane. I was wondering how these...

    Thank you Diane. I was wondering how these fortune cookies can be so accurate. Now it makes perfect sense. No doubt you found that somewhere on the Internet which of course is almost always correct...
  5. Thread: Lucky night

    by GretchenM
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    I think you have crossed a threshold....

    I think you have crossed a threshold. Congratulations. To pass people you know and even have eye contact and not be recognized is a notable achievement.
  6. Thread: Breasts

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    Two years ago I was treated for prostate cancer...

    Two years ago I was treated for prostate cancer and, as part of the procedure had testosterone suppression for 6 months. That creates gynecomastia, among other side effects some of which are not so...
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    Kris, you are very fortunate. A perfect...

    Kris, you are very fortunate. A perfect compromise based on caring and respecting each other - love. The "I don't want to see you because I can't unsee you" reaction is very common. I suspect my wife...
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    We often get tied up in that thinking about a...

    We often get tied up in that thinking about a reveal turning into a disaster. Actually, that doesn't happen most of the time. Take it slow though and, most important, listen carefully to the input of...
  9. Thread: What to do?!

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    In general I am part of the "need to know" camp....

    In general I am part of the "need to know" camp. But I don't think it should be a rigid rule. That mainly applies to casual friends, people where you work, and the like. Relatives, especially...
  10. Seven years ago when my wife was away I would...

    Seven years ago when my wife was away I would comfortably dress everyday. Now it is a rare event. Part of it was fatigue but I believe there is more to it than that. The big motivator is deep pink...
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    Baby steps is the best approach. Many, including...

    Baby steps is the best approach. Many, including me, moved too quickly at first and left the wife wondering WTF. The fire hose approach rarely works. Keep the communication going. However,...
  12. Thread: Dreams

    by GretchenM
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    I haven't had one of those dreams in quite a...

    I haven't had one of those dreams in quite a while, at least a couple of years. But I have had them in the past and they vary from being dressed and nobody notices to one rather X rated dream that...
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    Very wise words, Kandi, but I agree with Ronny0...

    Very wise words, Kandi, but I agree with Ronny0 that snowflake is maybe not the right analogy. However, it certainly gets the point of differences across. As Dr. Daphna Joel, developer of the Gender...
  14. Thread: Free at last

    by GretchenM
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    Pedalgirl, your loss of interest is quite...

    Pedalgirl, your loss of interest is quite different from my experience with prostate cancer treatment. I was diagnosed in May 2019 and received 8 weeks of radiation plus Elegard which is a time...
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    Oh my goodness Maria, my imagining of that scene...

    Oh my goodness Maria, my imagining of that scene had me laughing hard. Sorry about that, but it could have been a classic scene in a movie like Tootsie.

    Before I put on polish, which is rare, I...
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    I agree rather strongly with Helen on this. I...

    I agree rather strongly with Helen on this. I think the entire concept of "feminine energy" is false. I believe that is an artifact of the gender binary concept many humans have embraced, especially...
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    I like to think there is a next life, but not so...

    I like to think there is a next life, but not so certain that actually happens. Most evidence points toward the next world being, well, really dark. So, I think it is best to make the best of what...
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    I used to have hairy legs. Not anymore. I got...

    I used to have hairy legs. Not anymore. I got old. I can still find an occasional hair, but you really have to look.
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    Debs, I think your thoughts and findings are...

    Debs, I think your thoughts and findings are important and something that we who are involved in this tend to forget. I am sure there are some wives (or husbands if a woman swings the other...
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    Diane - No I did not have to rewrite it. With...

    Diane - No I did not have to rewrite it. With long posts I always save the text to the clipboard and then paste it into a new empty "Reply to Thread" form. That eliminates the problem with being...
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    (That was shocking, Di. I went to post my...

    (That was shocking, Di. I went to post my response to Diane and meanwhile the thread got moved. No harm done; just a Twilight Zone Moment.)

    Diane, I think you are fine. To me the rule in this...
  22. Thread: Awesome wife

    by GretchenM
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    Congratulations. Your wife is an angel; treat her...

    Congratulations. Your wife is an angel; treat her well and continue the communication. But, as others have said, take it slow and allow time for your wife to adjust to this new you. It is so...
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    Very lucky indeed. They are out there and you...

    Very lucky indeed. They are out there and you found one. Interesting that she thought "something" was going on.

    Maybe time to buy a lottery ticket or two. The gods are looking kindly on you.
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    Liz, you might want to keep a few things for that...

    Liz, you might want to keep a few things for that rare time when you might need to express the old way. It may never happen but if it does it could be chaotic without a small reserve. Put that...
  25. Congratulations, Sandi. Thinking back, you have...

    Congratulations, Sandi. Thinking back, you have come a long ways in a short time. Just goes to show how well this forum works in helping people get into a stable pattern with a mature look at how all...
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