Definitely. I hate the way I look as a man, AND question myself when dressed. Basically low self esteem across the board LOL
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Definitely. I hate the way I look as a man, AND question myself when dressed. Basically low self esteem across the board LOL
definitely do... particularly since I don't bother with a wig or makeup at home... and frankly I probably look ridiculous.
The whole "No Shave November" thing can be a perfect excuse for those WITH beards to shave them off...
I'm out to my wife, and have been out dressed a few times over the years... but am not "out" to anyone in my family/social circle. I DEFINITELY would love to be able to do it more often, but...
Since my wife is "accepting" but not necessarily "encouraging"... I would a simple "oh, that's a cool skirt!"
Karren - great point - I was glad to be able to pinpoint the origins of this for me, but tbh, that was more for the therapist than myself. I figure I am what I am... and it's not going to change, so...
For me the roots of it I think stem from my curiosity about women at a young age... didn't really have a girlfriend until maybe about 16 yo... when I was 14 I "borrowed" a pair of panties from a...
That's good to hear Audrey! My wife and I had discussed a trip to Vegas or something like that a few years ago... I don't think we were ready for that then, but maybe soon.
In another development...
my wife and I have made big strides in this area over the years, and especially recently.... love to see this!
Steph and Diane - yeah she did express appreciation that I asked about it... I think that definitely helped the overall situation :)
Yeah, I'm shocked in a good way LOL. I'm just so thankful for her understanding, despite her previously very conservative outlook on this stuff (NIMBY, etc). I think the exposure to trans-culture...
VERY cool... amazing wife indeed :)
Recently my youngest moved out, and we're now empty nesters. I've been sleeping en femme for quite some time, but now that the kids are all moved out, I'm able to get out of bed and make the coffee...
I had an appointment with my primary care doctor on Halloween - and we joked last time about me coming in a costume… I was going to dress to the nines and be open about everything…. But the...
I sleep in a VS night shirt with bra, forms and panties every chance I get. Usually whenever I go to bed before or long after my wife. The other night thought she walked in while I was standing...
Thank you all for such thoughtful replies!
I always did, but not until after I had told them about me…. So no surprises :)
Another thread on therapists reminded me of something I discussed last time with mine. I?ve been seeing her for about 3 years and she?s fully aware of my cross dressing, but every time I mention it...
Exactly the same here with regards to pantyhose, thongs, skirts, and other items. I also agree that I tend to wear things that I wish she would wear.
Sounds awesome :)
Breezy - your story sent me into a full on day dream - what an amazing time that must have been. I would do anything to have had something like that happen to me :)
When I was 5 maybe, I wore colored tights as a part of a Halloween costume, which mortified me at the time. I often wonder if that triggered something. Wasn?t until my early teens that I discovered...
Absolutely understand - same happens to me!
Definitely a sundress or some kind of peasant skirt with a tank top or fitted tshirt! And yeah flat sandals or at most a 1 inch heel
Wish I was/were a woman, but do not feel like I am one, so not really trans… and wouldn’t transition at this point anyway… I don’t have a feminine feature on my body and I don’t think the result...