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    Well Charlotte, what you experienced is a common...

    Well Charlotte, what you experienced is a common pattern in those of us who are gender variant in so many different ways. Those early years in our lives have such a huge impact on the direction our...
  2. Thread: love hate

    by GretchenM
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    Like Connie, been there, done that. I call it...

    Like Connie, been there, done that. I call it rapid cycling dysphoria. You seem to be like a bouncing ball in a closed room that can't stop bouncing. Eight years ago I went through a really severe...
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    Our generation is very different from the younger...

    Our generation is very different from the younger generations. They generally accept gender variation as being pretty normal and a guy wearing an evening gown to a prom is different but not a...
  4. Thread: Curse -Pt2

    by GretchenM
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    I (age 75) fully understand what you are saying...

    I (age 75) fully understand what you are saying and experiencing. It often turns out that in some ways the "Golden Years" is an illusion produced by some really good gold-colored paint put on a rusty...
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    For me, mirrors and cameras are just helper...

    For me, mirrors and cameras are just helper tools. It is all about identity and that does not need photos for self adoration or whatever. Personally, the AGP thing is pretty much history and has been...
  6. Fantastic, Chole. Great post!

    Fantastic, Chole. Great post!
  7. Thread: Intuition

    by GretchenM
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    Intuition, as we call it, is derived from a well...

    Intuition, as we call it, is derived from a well developed empathy characteristic. People who are more empathic can sense things in others more precisely than others. Sixth sense? Kind of, yes. Males...
  8. Thread: Now what??

    by GretchenM
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    Take it slow and easy - use the baby steps so...

    Take it slow and easy - use the baby steps so many of us use. Be patient and respectful and responsive to the feelings of others. Essentially, be yourself and follow your own star with a slow...
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    Wonderful analysis Marianne. I think you have...

    Wonderful analysis Marianne. I think you have really covered it - both the good and the not so good. I agree that the author of the article tends to have a bit of a narrow view of the nature of the...
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    It is limiting, but I avoid back zippers on...

    It is limiting, but I avoid back zippers on dresses like the plague. Anything else, fine, but not dresses. The fact is, women are a bit more flexible than men and that little bit of additional...
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    I largely agree with Teresa's way of...

    I largely agree with Teresa's way of characterizing this sense of feeling like a woman. I add that women very likely do not feel alike in any specific way - they, like men, are individuals and...
  12. You are quite right, Nadine. Everybody feels like...

    You are quite right, Nadine. Everybody feels like themselves. Nobody can know exactly how someone else feels. There is no such thing as a male brain or a female brain - in fact, they are almost...
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    A good therapist will not tell you what to do;...

    A good therapist will not tell you what to do; they will help you to discover what to do. No recipes are handed out. You create your own dish out of the resources you naturally have.

    It is well...
  14. In terms of psychology and neurology, most all of...

    In terms of psychology and neurology, most all of the behavior you exhibit is right on the money. In your case, you may not be consciously aware of the female-like aspects in your brain function, but...
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    I agree fully with others that it was likely an...

    I agree fully with others that it was likely an unsafe situation you were in. It is good you said you are married, but with some nuts that doesn't matter. Good you left. Maybe it was actually safe;...
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    On the surface, I am a little confused as well....

    On the surface, I am a little confused as well. But my view is superficial and I don't know about the dynamics between you and your wife. Things like this happen where our actions get a little out...
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    Great evening, I am sure and I am happy for you....

    Great evening, I am sure and I am happy for you. I am sure it was a great release after being cloistered like most people today are. But, please be careful with the socializing - it can be dangerous...
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    Good question, Jenny. For me it hasn't had much...

    Good question, Jenny. For me it hasn't had much impact as my life style did not include much of going places. I still go to the same places - grocery store, Home Depot, Office Depot, etc. I rarely go...
  19. I suspect that when it really comes down to it,...

    I suspect that when it really comes down to it, the things that women can now do in comparison to a man are becoming fewer and fewer. Naturally there are some things that are different such physical...
  20. Visitor, I think we are in close agreement...

    Visitor, I think we are in close agreement regarding the multitude of causes and effects that we experience. The fact remains, though, nobody has ever really figured out exactly why this behavior...
  21. You present some very interesting points,...

    You present some very interesting points, Visitor, but I also detect a bit of a thought that this behavior we exhibit follows rather systematic pathways that lead to a limited number of possible...
  22. Excellent questions and thinking, Visitor. And...

    Excellent questions and thinking, Visitor. And basically the answer to your concerns is "Yes." That is, with respect to people as a whole, the variations include such a vast array of behaviors that...
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    As Gillian said, the first rule of this behavior...

    As Gillian said, the first rule of this behavior is that the rules are like nailing Jello to the wall. We are all different and we all have different needs and different ways to express our feelings...
  24. I think Genifer is quite possibly correct. Women...

    I think Genifer is quite possibly correct. Women marry men not just because they like the person and their values but also because they are, well, men. But then their man starts wearing obviously...
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    I agree to a great extent with Micki's post....

    I agree to a great extent with Micki's post. Fortunately, you had something done that can be reversed fairly easily although not without a lot of pain and another long recovery period. Maybe you...
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