Hmmm... Like another in this thread, i don't really feel that there are two of me, one masculine and one feminine. I asked a friend who has seen both aspects if she saw a difference. She said I...
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Hmmm... Like another in this thread, i don't really feel that there are two of me, one masculine and one feminine. I asked a friend who has seen both aspects if she saw a difference. She said I...
It depends on the audience. I had a "friend with benefits" who enjoyed "the bulge" and who also enjoyed the access to it which skirts allowed...
Thanks for voicing this perspective, Sandra.
Iris,
That's a loaded question: "Will it work out?" I agree with the previous post about appropriate communication. I would also point out that sexuality and presentation are only part of a...
One could say I live twice the life of a single sex person.
Nice perspective Rachel! I've told prospective girlfriends - some want nothing to do with my "dirty little secret," some think it...
Ha! I was at the office of a cardiologist last Friday - the nurse came out to call me to the appointment... "Miss Mah...? Uh, Lee (last name)." She said it before she had identified whom she was...
I'm lucky to work at home, and at this point I live alone. So I work en femme nearly every day. At this point I have to say that it's more habit than need, which is an interesting place to be...
Interesting thread... Thanks for starting it.
My thought about Halloween costumes is that they reveal something deep about the people wearing them (and that at some level we want to be "out).
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When you reach to the middle of your back to take off a heart-rate monitor strap after working out at the club?
Ouch! I started a reply and it got lost - here's another try... I'm 63 and have been a cross dresser since I was no more than , possibly longer... I was blessed to have a daughter when I was 39. Her...
There you go... we have to keep on doing what we do so we can keep on doing what we do... At least that's my philosophy. I back it up with spin classes at the gym, 100-mile bike rides... Yesterday...
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Hi ArrannaRenee,
Not sure I'd classify myself as mature, but I'm 63 and have known about myself for at least 55 years... I don't think marriage and kids have any impact at all for whether...
In the words of one of my (straight male, as far as I know) friends, "Yeah baby!"
I have known I was a cross-dresser since I was about 6, scores of years ago. When I was young (pre-teen), I wondered what sex I was supposed to be, but never felt strongly that I was supposed to be...
So, for my part... my thinking patterns are typically male: fix things, understand how things work... However, I also enjoy shopping. So, to echo some movie theme - why does it have to be "or?" Why...
I would say "people" deserve respect, and should get a lot more than they do.
In my opinion, overall, it's a blessing. In my own life, I think it has made much more accepting of others' foibles and errors. It has led me to look at personality rather than presentation. And it...
Well, after 60+ years as a male, and 50+ years as a self-acknowledged cross-dresser, my thinking is that I've invested enough energy as a male that real boobs would interfere... Particularly, I am a...
I drive a 1995 Eagle Talon AWD - I've driven it both en femme and in drag - it's a lot of fun with sticky tires, so I can't imagine owning another car at this point. I'm waiting for the next big...
I've never liked the argument that women can wear pants without being cross-dressers, but men can't wear skirts. At the same time, you can watch a commercial where a woman wears her lover's/husband's...
Nice - thank you, Ashley, for your response...
I thought AshleyScott's response was pretty accurate. For myself - as a male I'm slender with build. In femme, I have too broad shoulders and to...
In my limited experience, HR personnel are accepting of gender oddities such as ours... An online friend whom I've hiked with for over a year (we knew on our second encounter that we were not a pair...
But what a delightfully humorous posting - if you can't laugh at yourself, someone else will surely do it for you...
Lee
I think the main thing "our condition" has taught me is tolerance. Although it took me a long time to come to accept myself, thinking about how messed up I was allowed me to accept others' foibles....
Well, I had a heart attack while out on a bike ride. I can remember the comment made while they were stripping me at the hospital, in preparation for a femural artery catheter, about taking off my...