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When you go to a christmas party and you want to eat, drink and be Mary.

Nicola:)

Good for you.
I had both sides done just over a year ago and no one seems to be bothered about it at work. There are several other guys at work with with both sides pierced - some wear rings and...

Brian Molko from the band Placebo springs to mind.

Nicola

I am dressed at the moment, but mostly I am not when I visit this site.

Nicola

I too often wear tights under my jeans and I believe I do so undetected.
Years ago I was drinking in a pub with my then girlfriend and she had a pair of black opaque tights on under her jeans - I...

Maja Ivarsson, from the band "The Sounds" - especialy if I got to wear the black dress she is wearing in the video "painted by numbers".

Nicola

A short denim skirt with black opaque tights.

Nicola

I find it relaxing and calming and a complete change from my stressful job at work. I have noticed that I crossdress more often when going through difficult or turbulent times at work or in my...

I too stopped purging when I realised I am who I am and, as others have said, replacing things you have thrown out is just a waste of money.
I still selectively get rid of items in order to stop my...

Go for it and have them pierced.
I had both mine pierced in my late forties.
When I wear small studs in guy mode nobody seems to notice.
When, like now, I am dressed and in Nicola mode I can...

From your list I would chose

Bath
Womanly
Fire
Book
Other choices - no preference

Have fun
Nicola

I bought a couple of pairs of tights in my local supermarket less than an hour ago (I was in drab). When I was choosing them and then when I bought them at the checkout, I wasn't aware of any...

The person who lost them may not be in a financial position to take their loss lightly - I would have handed them in.

Nicola

Let's not forget the CDers Christmas Party where everybody wants to Eat, Drink and be Mary.

Nicola

A denim pinnafore dress.
I guessed at the size in the shop - and guessed right! It fitted perfectly and was very comfy.
Sadly it went in one of my purges

Nicola :(

In girly mode or in drab, I also have zero physical or sexual attraction to men.

Nicola

I think the guilt comes from the fact that we can't be fully open about it.
You can express a liking for a certain football team or style of music but anything which touches on gender or sexual...

I find that I am calmer and usually more relaxed when dressed enfemme. I also find I am less impatient and better able to concentrate on tasks like household chores, computer issues etc
Being Nicola...

I remember making excuses to myself about my activities - yes, I was in denial.
A pair of tights worn underneath - for warmth

A leotard over the tights - to hold them up

A "manbag" - to carry...

I too have periods of self loathing over what I do. Sometimes when I dress it's almost because I have to, rather than because I want to - and I wish I didn't feel like that.
At other times I see...

I too wear tights under my jeans in winter, always with knickers under my tights, and often with a bodysuit or a leotard over them as well.
As I am underdressing rather than going en femme, any VPL...

I viewed the site for about a year before I joined. I too am quite shy and didn't want to intrude - how silly.
Joining also meant, to me, formally admitting I am a crossdresser - strange though...

In the middle of the 80's aerobics craze I loved to see women wearing leotards and I finally plucked up the courage to buy myself a leotard and a pair of footless tights - I thought they were great. ...

Yeah, I talk to myself too (sometimes not very politely!). It's one of my mechanisms for solving problems and arriving at solutions.
I am careful where I do this of course, although today, people...

Don't break wind loudly, it's not ladylike!

Nicola