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I thought the same thing.

Laughter isn't the best medicine. Medicine is the best medicine.

Buffing is a great way to have something femme without being overtly obvious. I like to buff mine first (takes out all the ridges) then do a nice polish on top - makes it look like glass. :)

Tough situation. I'm personally not offended by anything you've said here.

Right now, I think you're saying that it is in your own best interest not to dress for a while until your circumstances...

Thanks Sue! My wife is really cool and fully supportive...beyond supportive even. Her head was much cooler than mine for sure!

Thanks Claire! Crazy thing was, I *did* lock the door - trouble is little did i know the hinge was loose and with a slight push the lock would slip past and open. Like you said, at least she was...

Thanks Bev! I had expected the opposite reaction from the DQ's - I figured they would kind of be more understanding to outing someone. I wasn't offended or anything, just not prepared for that...

So I finally got the balls (all puns intended!) to go out in public dressed en femme. My wife and I are in the Keys and figured why not? It was an... interesting experience - but at this point I am...

Wow! Thanks everyone - thank you for being so supportive and encouraging!

You've all given some great advice here, and I plan on taking a lot of it. I know I can work to improve my appearance -...

I'm usually the last one to throw a pity party - but I've been feeling rather down lately, and I need to vent about it.

I've been feeling downright ugly lately. A few weeks ago, my loving wife...

I've never gone to have my nails done, but I want to soon! For now, I just do them myself or have my wife do them (she's very accepting). Now I am feeling inspired - out comes the nail polish box!

I generally play female characters in the games I play (FPS not MMO) because the female characters are generally faster, smaller, and harder to shoot. :)

We have only one vehicle at the moment - a Honda Odyssey Minivan. I think more women drive them than men, but I wouldn't qualify it as a 'Chickmobile'.

The guy's name is Brian Zembic. I saw a clip of him on Comedy Central's "The Man Show" years ago. Supposedly, he still has the implants years later, and even lost another bet where he had to get...

Your intuition with your wife is probably correct - she is feeling trapped. It may seem like splitting hairs, but I think your wife is tolerant of the situation, not accepting (yet).

You...

So I've been confronted with death recently and it got me thinking - for those of you who plan to be buried at your funeral, do you want to be dressed en drab, or en femme?

in some sense, I think voice is kind of the 'holy grail' of passing in public. I've never tried to get a femme voice myself, though I am fairly verbally talented (I emulate accents easily, can do...

I definitely go through phases too. Sometimes I just don't care to dress up, sometimes that's all I want to do. I'm sure that has to be confusing for my very supportive wife.

My SO and I joined at the same time - the site has been helpful to both of us.

My parents divorced when I was 3 or so, and I only saw my Dad a handful of times until I was 18 or so. We've since forged a decent relationship, but those years of separation have had their effect. ...

I'd say people perceive me as a 4-5 most of the time. I have a deep voice, lots of facial hair, and I generally carry myself in a manly way. By contrast, I *feel* more like a 2-3.

Hi Sarah,
I think it is good that you were honest with her from the beginning - that shows commitment and love from you to her - so full marks there! :)

Regarding being dressed while intimate -...

If your dad is 'in the closet' it is his choice to out himself or to remain there. By the same token, you have your own choice as to whether or not to out yourself to your Dad. I'd definitely err...

It feels...good! I feel more content with myself and I have a sense of peace and calm... and some exhilaration as well! :) I am a very tactile person, and having finer fabrics and better fitting...

I like fixing things and so does my wife. We've renovated our kitchen together, repainted our house inside and out, installed new shingles. soffit, fascia, and a ton of other projects. Usually if...