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I don't know about any of you, but I'm not trying to fool anyone. I simply try to look my best, just as I try to look my best when I'm out in drab. There's something to be said about putting effort...

Congratulations! There is no substitute for hiding in plain site. Crowds are your friend. The lonlier your environment, the greater the attention and scrutiny placed on you.

It's the difference...

When I was younger and in school, I underdressed every day and truly enjoyed the restrictive feel of being in a girdle or bodysuit and nylons. Later, as I spent time out and about as Monica, I lost...

If my partner was fully accepting of my lifestyle and demanded, in exchange, to call the shots and be the boss, I wouldn't have a problem with that. Talk amongst yourselves...

Charlotte,
Speaking from experience, there are lots of men who are totally into hanging out with a CD or transperson for reasons other than physical contact. Some of them are chasing a kink, others...

If this is in fact your first time out dressed, ever, I strongly suggest that you set aside some time for a solo trial run in a social setting. You do not want to be in a situation where you panic or...

Dark subdued or loud and bright restaurant? That depends on your comfort level being out dressed. It has been my experience that in loud and bright restaurants people subconsciously zero in on their...

We are all adults. We all understand what cheating is and what open relationships are. We also understand that some of our sisters who are in hetero relationships have an immediate and visceral...

- Go to a place where there are lots of people. The anonymity and energy in the room will be super helpful.
- Don't worry about a thing.
- You are presenting as a woman, so use the women's...

To our judgmental sisters: Not everyone is in a wonderful monogamous relationship. Not everyone shares your moral compass. Not everyone sees the world as you do. Let's not forget that the world is...

Well! Thank you for all the thoughtful responses. As a recap, yes, I am married. No, she does not approve of any of it. Yes, I go on my little adventures without her knowledge. Yes, I felt terrible...

Good morning. Yesterday, I took a leap. A big step forward, maybe off a cliff? Who knows. As you may know, I am quite fond of going out into the world as Monica but I have always done so at a safe...

Yes, I saw what you did in the last pic. No matter. Fabulous figure. Flaunt it. Yes, that dress is an eyeball magnet but sometimes that can be a lot of fun, too.

You have a wonderful, extraordinary figure and should take every single opportunity to show it off. Every single one.

Because I like women's clothes because I like to look like a woman because I like to feel like a woman because I like to be treated like a woman because I always wished that I was a woman.
I will...

We spend so much time rehashing the why, to no one's satisfaction BTW, when we should just be enjoying the ride.

Why? Because we can.

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Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons.

Speak your truth quietly and...

I tried Tinder for a while and got a lot of responses from mostly obnoxious middle-aged men looking for quick, NSA "relief." Gave up after the umpteenth one.

Your biggest challenge is not that you "don't pass" (very very few of us ever do), or that you will be outed (mostly likely by being spotted by a friend, neighbor, or coworker while getting out of...

There is no clothes that a woman could wear to generate the same reaction or stigma for a very basic reason. Our society values men above women. The idea that a man would voluntarily reduce his...

Breaking news: old happens. We don't look like we did 5, 10, or 15 years ago and we shouldn't expect to. We adapt to what we look like now. When I was younger I would wear ****ty trappy outfits with...

Some of us decided a while back that it was not worth the turmoil and loss to change our vanilla lives at this point. Whatever works for you and your situation is all that matters. No two will be the...

Audrey, I know that feeling but trust me, it wasn't your lack of makeup that triggered those losers. You could have had Kim K's makeup artist work on your face but a group of CDs will always stand...

I guess it all depends on the environment. I am very careful about touching other people in any way, unless they are expressly asking for it. However, I have been in settings where I was groped...

The world is changing. I have had lots of fun being out dressed and partying in some rather backwards or, to say the least, conservative places. I have also been randomly heckled a handful of times...