hello Nikki, very sorry you have missed coming over here. Maybe have a go at talking to your wife - she may be much more tolerant than you think.
Cheers
Robbie
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hello Nikki, very sorry you have missed coming over here. Maybe have a go at talking to your wife - she may be much more tolerant than you think.
Cheers
Robbie
I find that I feel better when I have told someone, even if they are not pleased. The reaction I get is usually positive which builds confidence. Don't worry about the younger ones my grandchildren,...
I called myself Diana for a while. Then I decided to make it easier for others to remember so chose to introduce myself as Robbie. Not a very feminine name but one that is easy for folk to...
If you want to present yourself as feminine when you feel feminine, even if you are alone, then I suppose you will continue to CD. If you to feel feminine and you don't feel the need to CD then you...
I am a member of the Beaumont society and joining was one of the best things I have done. From an initial chat on the phone to the regional organiser who helped me feel I was not alone to attending...
A lot of very helpful replies which will be helpful to me. Debs is correct very few if any will notice you or me. I do not wear anything that stands out, I wear comfortable shoes women's shoes and...
Well then, keep in your element. The initial feeling of trepidation is a part of the relaxation I think.
Cheers
Robbie
the focus on identity politics, especially the more radical is really quite sad given that we are mostly striving for equality. How can I be affecting a transgender person by dressing in female...
just to add to the thanks for telling us - it helps us all.
Robbie
good to hear Sarah, I am 70 next yer and I am on a similar campaign of being open about being "Trans". I am not taking hormones though.
Cheers
Robbie
I got my left ear pierced at my 40th birthday - delayed until then because i thought my Mum would disapprove - she didn't notice - I had to tell her. I got my other ear pierced about ten years...
I did have a double mastectomy 29 years ago when I was forty. I don't necessarily regret it but given the choice again I would keep my breasts. No idea if it was gynecomastia - first I have heard...
yes if you are "out" and would like to go to work dressed then it would be best to say so. Do some background checking of the prospective employer they may well be wanting to increase the diversity...
I often have this thought process - sometimes in answer to a question, sometimes just in my head. I spent a lot of time trying hard to be manly, wondering if i would have body hair and growing a...
A good experience Charlotte, today for me was similar on a very dull Bradford, West Yorkshire day. The rain held off but I was well protectd by my ladies raincoat. I had all women's clothes on...
Cremation or burial once in the coffin no one will see you but it would be nice to go into the fire well dressed. So I have left instructions at to what dress I would like to be wearing. I think it...
I told my daughter quite some time ago and then my son, they were both OK but my son did not want to see me dressed. A couple of years ago my wife and I wanted to give power of attorney to my son and...
I feel as though I am evolving in that I now go out much more in what I consider female and I am far more likely to tell people that I am a transvestite. as yet no one as made any comment about the...
Definitely female for me, the goddess is the one. I always dress for rituals - next one is the Autumn equinox this coming Sunday. I get made up and wear favourite comfortable clothes then create the...
It is quite likely that your daughter did not connect that what you were wearing was femme, that you were intentionally wearing women's clothing. We cross dressers assume that everyone notices what...
hello Pixie
talking to friends or paid counsellor or talking to yourself strive for honesty and openness.
Robbie x
yes I wore my sister's clothes especially knickers, roll-ons (remember them?), bras stockings and suspenders and slips. She is just 2year older, most things fit OK except for dresses. Sister was...
I have a goatee at the moment. I will shave it off when I want to be in public and want to look like a woman. My wife really likes my beard and it doesn't stop me dressing. However I do like to...
It is probably the effect of being in a group, individually they may react differently and be more accepting in their reaction. Being surprised and reacting on the spur of the moment is usual. ...
It is only recently that I have heard that people think transvestite is insulting. To me it just sounds more serious (formal) than cross-dresser. I often say to my wife "it can be difficult being a...