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I didn't have a trigger so much as an series of unveilings followed by an "oh shit" moment. I had always considered myself a fetishist (latex,leather) who sometime played with gender. It wasn't until...

I just had a conversation with my therapist where I told her I felt silly sometime with how much I was enjoying things like cheerleader outfits and My Little Pony and she suggested that it was...

Vanny - you know you bring up a good point. When I've gone out in latex the attention I get is much different. In fact people will actually approach and ask you about what you are wearing. Some want...

Isha - Ha while I haven't been a firefight, I was in the army for a few years and experienced plenty of things that almost got me killed. An while I am sure I was scared at the time I don't ever...

Has anyone ever had a panic attack right before going out or while your were out dressed?

I'll tell you why I ask.

I still have not put in an appearance in public. This partly because I am...

Carla,

That's the funniest and saddest story I've ever heard. Good for you for keeping that photo. It's equally lovely and doom-laden at the same time. Big hugs!

Abby

Not yet but I can see that happening. I've already replaced most of my exercise and sleepwear with femme versions and I've reduced my male wardrobe to just a few essential items so I have some closet...

I am a huge fan of magazines but I don't know anything about women's magazines. My SO doesn't really buy anything other then O and Real Simple (which by the way is also a great magazine for stay at...

I was totally anxious just reading your post! I so want to be able to do this someday. Thanks for sharing and being so brave!

Has anyone ever polled the group to determine how many of us are in or seeking same-sex (same genetic sex?) relationships?

So I've been actively seeking a boyfriend myself and since I am fairly new to being a CD was wondering how I should present myself. As a (blossoming?) CD first or bisexual male first? I am assuming...

I've been thinking about this very topic. I recently became interested in mindfulness and started practicing meditation, along with that came a lot of awareness of my actual feelings and how often I...

Okay that idea really blew my mind. I love it!