I watched my youngest girl happily run into her school as I dropped her at the gate...and I thought how lovely and happy she is and how innocent too. I welled up inside - maybe that's part of my...
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I watched my youngest girl happily run into her school as I dropped her at the gate...and I thought how lovely and happy she is and how innocent too. I welled up inside - maybe that's part of my...
Very true. She will never get it out of her head. She knows it's going to be lurking in the shadows. I need to man up and try to reassure her in whatever way I can verbally & physically i.e. I need...
Well ladies, had the talk this morning which lasted hours & hours.
And I don't think it's over yet.
I told her exactly what was on my mind and what I wanted - selfish me.
I'm sorry for wearing...
Hi Becky Blue.
I underdress nearly all the time nowadays wearing panties and or tights with my boys tucked away nicely. I just can't stop doing it - it feels so right for me.
I get what you're...
Wow! Tnx for those tips everyone.
I'll be judging by my wife's stuff what may suit or fit me. I'm a bit of a skinny rake - 26" waist. Will have to go to another town for shoes definitely. That'll be...
I'm going to get my own stuff. I'm actually quite excited about it too. It should enable me to be me, I hope.
It'll have to be done via online shopping though as I wouldn't have the courage to go...
Hi Nikki, I don't like to give me or anyone a label. So I'm not gender dysphoric & I'm not a crossdresser and I'm also not female - am I male - yes because I have male genitalia but I prefer to say...
Ok. I get your point and agree 100% with you but it's not a regular thing and I'll deal with it if I feel I need to. Thanks though. 👍
Thanks for the replies. Much appreciated.
I'm not that bothered about the hitting as it doesn't happen that often and I understand that I may have driven her to it anyway.
I know I shouldn't be...
Hi all.
My wife has been able to accept some aspects of my crossdressing, sometimes, since I told her about 2 years ago.
But not any more.
I've being dressing secretly some times without telling...
Thanks to ALL replies. They are greatly appreciated....truly.
I have told her recently that she was the boss on this, in that she could say when I could and couldn't do it and to whatever level of...
As the title reads - I probably should've stayed in the closet and said nothing to my wife about my CDing.
It's kind of gone all pear-shaped. I told her too much too soon.....but then again she did...
Thanks for the input folks.
Just to clarify a few things....
I am taking counselling seriously.
And I understand that counselling goes off on different tangents/aspects of my life which I have no...
Hey Teresa,
I mentioned you and your idea to my counselor.....guess what?.....
She said that it wouldn't be a problem for me to arrive fully dressed. I was relieved to hear it but I won't be taking...
MAYBE I SHOULD CHANGE THE TITLE OF THIS POST.....but I don't want to jinx it.
Since posting this initial post my life has changed forever & for the better.
Thanks to all here for their...
In an argument (recently) about my CDing my wife called me a lot of things but she also called me Mariah/Kaitlyn/Bitch... etc etc.
We are on a different page now together and enjoyng each other and...
"fun with the counsellor"...?
Hmmm!?!?
Not 100% sure what you mean?
I had thought of asking her could I dress but might be weird as I also have thought that this is now just for me ... And a...
Thanks Teresa.
The counsellor did say that she would be challenging me so will see what happens.
Hi all.
Well just to let you know counselling is going well .. I'd actually recommend it.
I've opened up big time with my wife and also myself.
She has accepted my situation thankfully and is...
WOW!
Firstly I want to thank ALL of you for your time and consideration in your replies. It IS really appreciated.
I spent an hour talking to a gay female counsellor....I broke down a few...
Thanks a million Bridget.
In about 2 hours I'm going to make a phone call that may or may not help me.
I'm finally going to seek counselling of some sort......I think I need it to save my marriage and my sanity.
I haven't...
Hi Joyce.
Hope your feeling a bit better after getting that off your chest.
Up coming Cliché warning .......
* A problem shared is a problem halved.
* There is light at the end of the tunnel....
Update on my tucking.
I found a tip online on how to make your own gaff using the tube of a sock and the elastic from a pair of tights.
It's quite simple -
- Cut an old clean sock around the...
WOW! Soooo, I'm not alone on that one then.....phew!
Thanks for the great tips.
I think I've figured out a way to kill 2 birds with the one stone - figuratively speaking, of course....😂.....I need...