I think hypnosis done by an experienced qualified professional can be very useful for managing certain behaviors and beliefs. If you are troubled by anxiety about your gender issues then a good...
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I think hypnosis done by an experienced qualified professional can be very useful for managing certain behaviors and beliefs. If you are troubled by anxiety about your gender issues then a good...
It’s difficult to maintain a singular identity when you are conflicted or in conflict with other people. Trans people are constantly invalidated by most other people and very frequently can’t...
I have been playing hardball with some of the CDs lately because I think it's important that our common bonds be properly recognized. Cisfeminine and transfeminine people are related to each other...
There is a cloud of confusion that surrounds some of us. For example, there are a large number of incoherent crossvestites on this site. You know them, the ones who are crossdressers because they...
Gabba gabba who? Yabba dabba what? Other people don't understand you? It's because some of you don't know how to communicate, with yourself or anyone else.
Transgender people are ones who have a...
You can boil your gender soup down to your gender identity but that doesn't make one dish the same as the other.
For the record, crossdressing is an ingredient in some transgender soups. It is...
Some people have a peculiarly selective understanding of sex and gender. Is your wife a train
or a woman? How do you know? Are you a man or a box of breakfast cereal? We will understand if you...
You can take the chicken out of Kentucky, but you can't take Kentucky out of the chicken. By chicken, I mean crossdresser. By Kentucky, I mean the femmy transmasculinity of some guys with girl...
Crossdressers need to weigh the different meanings of transgender and cisgender to find their
place in the world. If they have done that and still think they are cisgender then they clearly don't...
You say my definition of transman is incorrect, I say your definition is incomplete. You are correct but not completely correct.
I was only trying to help some poor souls rescue their false...
To be clear, Mother Nature created transgender variety, not me. If you are a man who is transgender then you are a transman. Since there is more than one way to be a man who is transgender, there...
This framework allows the crossdressing transmen who were born with certain male parts to keep their transmanhood that is a close approximation of cismanhood, but is not equivalent to it. It also...
There is more than one way to be a man, but only one categorical way to be a cisman. Men who dress like Strawberry Shortcake for a hobby are too sweet to be cismen. They have no manly peers who...
I apologize for lighting a fire under anyone in this thread, so I'll turn off the heat. Sometimes when you roast a bird, delicious juices flow out. I was trying to get some good insights from one...
Do labels matter? It depends how meaningful your want your life to be and if you want to communicate with other people and have meaningful relationships with them. If you don't care about...
Some people need a good dose of tough love sometimes. I wasn't speaking about you Lady Veronica. You're a cactus trying to be a canoe. I love the people on this site who are smart and self-aware,...
You do manly things because society forced you to do them? You do womanly things
because you are paying tribute to women who are definitely not like you? You have conveniently opted out of having...
You can brush your teeth with a turd, but that doesn't make it toothpaste. The logical definition of toothpaste excludes turds. Similarly, the logical definition of cisgender excludes...
I cried at a funeral once, but I wasn't wearing a dress, so no one thought I was being a sissy-man. If sissy-man is an unintelligible term for some of you, then ask anyone standing nearby what it...
Crossdressers who compare themselves to women to prove their manliness are making a false
comparison. The true and relevant comparison they should be making is between themselves and other men who...
Our imaginations are powerful deceivers. Girly-men who pout (with pretty red lips) and stamp their (high fashion) heels when anyone else suggests they aren't "all manly" are suffering from a very...
I don't know any men who express their intrinsic masculinity by wearing a wig, makeup, and a dress; but it's okay with me if they want to make absurd claims about themselves and their behavior.
The class of people who are transgender actually has more diversity than the class of people who are cisgender, but both classes have a large amount of particular diversity despite the general...
Gender is a general formal and functional characteristic. Sex is a specific formal characteristic. Sexuality is a specific functional characteristic. Our gender classification includes sex and...
No, you can't CD without being TG. Cisgender people don't crossdress. Cisgender people
don't dress themselves in a manner that is commonly associated with the opposite gender. Crossdressing is...