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    We have to examine the whole process. We...

    We have to examine the whole process. We associate different behavior of some kind with how you express what is being generated in your brain. All behavior begins in the brain. But what we call a...
  2. Thread: Wondering

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    Good points, Marianne. I think it goes to...

    Good points, Marianne.

    I think it goes to show that it is really hard to pin things down and draw boundaries between the "species" of LGBTQ people or anybody for that matter. Boundaries are fuzzy...
  3. Thread: Wondering

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    As Helen said, it is a "wide spectrum." In its...

    As Helen said, it is a "wide spectrum." In its most pure state, it is a personal thing. If you do that because you identify to some extent with what wearing those clothes, even in underdressing, with...
  4. Thread: Bye bye

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    Like Crissy, I thought "Oh NO! Helen is a fixture...

    Like Crissy, I thought "Oh NO! Helen is a fixture here. It can't be." And it isn't.

    Being so diligent at keeping a diary is a great thing. Thinking your thoughts in the context of current events...
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    That is always a wonderful event but it rarely...

    That is always a wonderful event but it rarely happens in my world. It is a bit of a validation of a deeper identity, but be careful. They might also be humoring you (which, by the way, is not nice...
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    Love your comments, Marianne. You have gone very...

    Love your comments, Marianne. You have gone very deep in your discussion and I admire that. Very thought provoking for sure.

    On the Nature vs. Nurture aspect, it seems that those who intensively...
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    We get this impression that we have, as a...

    We get this impression that we have, as a society, made progress and then something like this happens. So glad you confronted their opinions. That is really what is needed. Exposure to "weirdos" like...
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    Wow, Diana. You have a relationship that...

    Wow, Diana. You have a relationship that approaches the golden mean. Obviously, there is a lot of respect for each other and that is what it takes. And a willingness to accept the other person's...
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    Michelle, I think there is a good deal of truth...

    Michelle, I think there is a good deal of truth in what you say that being strongly connected to the "feminine side" makes a big difference in our personality and how we deal with others. In fact, I...
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    1) Do you regret not telling your spouse? ...

    1) Do you regret not telling your spouse? I was asymptomatic for 8 years before we got married and 5 years after. This was 1968-69. What was there to tell? I figured it had gone away. Back...
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    There are at least two concepts of gender at work...

    There are at least two concepts of gender at work in the world that provides a definition to gender and gender variance. One fundamental concept is the gender binary. Here gender is determined by sex...
  12. Thread: Stealing

    by GretchenM
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    When I was around 5 I lived in an incredibly poor...

    When I was around 5 I lived in an incredibly poor neighborhood. Nobody had any money. I never stole clothes then or since then, but back then the little kids had a regular crime ring stealing candy...
  13. Wow, what an experience. You certainly dove in...

    Wow, what an experience. You certainly dove in head first and come out a bit changed. Good reaction from your wife. I suggest you let her ruminate on the event - she may come around to being more...
  14. Thread: Dreams

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    I did and, on rare occasions, still do. But as I...

    I did and, on rare occasions, still do. But as I gain more consciousness after waking up I am then met by the disappointment from looking in the mirror. Same old fart.
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    Happy birthday, Bobbi. What a memorable birthday...

    Happy birthday, Bobbi. What a memorable birthday this one will be. You must be floating among the clouds with an accepting daughter and your girlfriend able to come and stay with you for the...
  16. Paulie is right on the bullseye. If it is just a...

    Paulie is right on the bullseye. If it is just a hobby that involves just a type of acting you can find another hobby. But if it is a need (as it is in most of us) that is not going to work. It is a...
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    You both need to be willing to seek a compromise....

    You both need to be willing to seek a compromise. It can't be just one or the other. It may take several discussions and they will be touchy sometimes. It might also be a good idea to have a couple...
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    Pixie, that is part of who you are. You don't...

    Pixie, that is part of who you are. You don't have to dress; that is a choice that many make, but it is not necessary. Your feelings of being, to some degree, a bit female is an integral part of your...
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    Carroll, I think you have a wonderful handle on...

    Carroll, I think you have a wonderful handle on life and the kinds of things that YOU need to stay stable and comfortable with who YOU are. Meanwhile you are considerate of others and their needs....
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    Second thoughts seem to be fairly common among...

    Second thoughts seem to be fairly common among SO's. I think the suggestion of talking to her and, if necessary, setting up agreed to boundaries for both of you is the best way to go. It establishes...
  21. I have had many dreams of flying. Sometimes under...

    I have had many dreams of flying. Sometimes under my own power and other times in a car that somehow flies, without wings I might add. They are exciting and memorable dreams and always pleasant -...
  22. Hi Jenny, Back when I was in major gender...

    Hi Jenny,

    Back when I was in major gender dysphoria almost 24/7 but also a bit after that as well, I had girl dreams all the time and it sure wasn't boy dreams about girls. Or man dreams about...
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    Interesting series of questions Di. 1)High...

    Interesting series of questions Di.

    1)High heals or flats? Flats. Heels don't work for my feet and they are always way too tight because I have feet that are a bit like a beaver tail or swim...
  24. I vary between 0 and various blends of 1 through...

    I vary between 0 and various blends of 1 through 4 at different times. Being non-binary means that I am more prone to vary a tremendous amount in my expression with a lot of mix and match. Much of...
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    High and intense stress such as thinking about...

    High and intense stress such as thinking about and being immersed constantly in talk about the pandemic, so to speak, gets your brain tired. The usual variations are just too much effort. That may be...
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