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This road is not as easy one, Donna dear. As we all know, all too well.
I have much to be grateful for, but am not always grateful for it.
I've found at times some of my friend's freedoms and...

Donna, way to go, girl
I've often thought if faced with being outed in my small country community, the best bet would be a very public statement like that. Save people with too much time on their...

Hi Isha
Glad you are on the mend, girl
Sorry you've had to go through it 😢
Tess x

Yaaay Christen
It was indeed a spectacular night, and I was quite honoured to be a part of it ��
For me, that sense of utter wellness has been lifesaving, I can still remember my first time beyond...

Such a good thing that she has you in her life, Paula.
I'm very glad that V is thus far safe, and on alert now.
Sad that we have to be that so often, and that some (not many) view us with such...

A wise friend told me once, girls dress for other girls, not for boys (as a rule). Makes some sense to me.

I have been, by guys when at a gay bar with some friends ( young GG couple, great kids-...

Mmm, interesting question.
For years, I hated being lean (at 25 you could still see my ribs, 72kg), all I wanted was to have a big chest and be muscly.
For a long time I hated being different,...

So proud of you, girl.
Way to go!
:)
And my average night out in a frock ends at 2am, waaay later than when not frocked up

It's the hardest thing. To see past the guy in photos, and for some reason, selfies are the worst.
I have moments before going out that I am horrified at how I look, but I'm stubborn enough to go...

Nah, not at all.
I get upset now when I break a nail, and I work in construction, and on cars and motorbikes.
Comes with the territory I think :)

I've always thought that it's so 'taboo' in the west, because we are often afraid of that which we don't know or understand.
It has been, and is, socially acceptable in many eastern countries (but...

Both really, much more myself in many ways, but also, particularly when out, quite vulnerable, and definitely more quiet/gentle/passive.
(Confidence?)
Overall though, what I feel is sublime

Know that feeling well, Christen.
Knowing where we belong, and how we fit is a most special thing.
And this is that sort of place (Yay!)
Thanks for the reminder, girl

Interesting question, from my perspective I want to look the best I can, which means dressing appropriate to the situation.
Also need to be comfortable in what I am in, because I think confidence is...

Hiya! No where near you, but I have to say, spending time with other CD folk has been a fantastic experience for me, almost as much as being a part of this site. We are all different in lots of ways,...

Every day, babe. Every day :)

Do I know who I am? Now, yes. 12 months ago, not really.
Being a part of this place was a great help in understanding who I am, as has been meeting and spending time with others like me.
I to have...

Always good to hear another's story. Biggest thing for me ever was knowing I wasn't alone. Seems so silly now :)

Spot on, Paula.
So good to be able to accept who you are, and so right about motivation for right living, not dieting.
Thanks for sharing this story of you.

What I have found, Darla, since I started to embrace this part of me, is I have done little things along the way.
I'm hair free pretty much, use clear polish on my hands, have coloured toenails...

Good for you, Isha!

Absolutely feel more vulnerable.
And look it too, so am acutely aware of the risks.
Which we need to be, I think

I think we all of us have some opinion of what is appropriate attire, and are surprised when we feel it at times, too!
My gut reaction gets to me sometimes to when I'm out with others.
But then I...

Hard thing, Steffi.
You asked, and she said yes.
Sounds like she is finding things hard to deal with, for sure.
And this would not help things.
To me, she needs to know you are with her, and that...

Way to go!
I had a hotel check in as the boy, after checking out en femme the previous time.
The girl had changed my prefix to Ms, the check in lady was changing it back, embarrassed.
I said...