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For short trips the heels don't particularly bother me, but I have a tendency to kick my shoes off in the car no matter what sort of footwear I'm wearing. Stockinged feet are the most comfortable for...

Tanya,

I've "tried it out" and decided that it wasn't what I was looking for as my primary mode of satisfaction. The times when I hooked up with other males and at least one of us wasn't in dress...

I've always been very open about my desires with anyone that I felt had the chance of becoming a significant other. It has caused some immediate breakups, but it has also "weeded out" those that were...

I've always just tried to look proportionate. At 5'11" with (perhaps) overdeveloped legs from years of soccer and hockey, it takes the extension of 4" heels to slenderize my legs and make them look...

I'd like the opportunity, but there's no way I'd stay female. Life is too good for me the way that I am.

What I would like to do though, is go back in time and be more open about who and what I...

I've learned that being open about myself early-on in a relationship avoids a lot of future angst. Other than when I've met people while en femme, I don't think I've ever "dropped the bomb" on a...

For me, being a guy is easy and common. Dressing is still special because it takes the extra effort.

I guess that I still feel the same way when I get dressed in "special" guy clothes too...

My short answer is that most people just like stereotypes because it obviates their need to think. They can just categorize and move on. Confusion can be scary so if they can just drop you into a...

My dad was not amused or very accepting when I was a youth and he found a suspicious stash of female clothing in my room. He did mellow as he aged though and I'd like to think that if he were still...

Paula,

I hope you and your wife find a workable solution.

I went through the same thing with a long-term SO when I was younger and ever since then, I started "breaking the news" whenever...

It definitely depends on how I'm dressed. Any of the scented male deodorants tend to clash with the perfume.

You could try what I did... I happened across meetup.com and found that they had a Chicago Crossdresser and Transgender group. I went out for the first time in years to one of their monthly events...

I know exactly where you're coming from. What finally snapped me out of it was the realization that I was wasting the present with my worries about the future.

Carpe diem! (Having never had Latin...