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That is simply brilliant!

Speck

If you want to send me a picture of yourself in a PM, I'd be happy to suggest one that I think would suit you.

Speck

I know this thread wasn't meant for GGs and I hope I'm not hijacking your thread but for some time now, I've been thinking that I would like to do make-up for TGs. I'm not a professional make-up...

Krystal,

Irl, I love doing people's make up and if I could make any money at it, I'd love to be an image consultant or something. There are lots of times when I want to give a compliment and...

Did I read this right? She "allows" you to dress as often as you like? Did you really use the word "allows"? I can understand GraceAnne perhaps using that word because her and her husband seem to...

Sophie, I absolutely agree that by and large, there's a difference between feminine and masculine and I like the way you say there's some sort of energy to both. The trouble with listing...

I have an opinion on this whole idea of labels that I’d like to share and see how many of you could live with it. These are my beliefs given all I’ve read, heard and seen so far but I hold out for...

Anne, I read a line by a CD once that said, "take control of your crossdressing or it will control you". As I'm sure you've seen on this site, there's a lot of talk about pushing boundaries. Since...

Great question. I was hoping someone would have an answer for that but I'm not sure if the question got lost or no one has an answer.

Speck

Suit, I know you've taken a lot of flack on this site for this point of view but you may be onto something. I recall reading one research paper that speculated that crossdressing could be attributed...

In an effort to keep things simple...I've always considering CDing as something you do and TG is something you are.

But these are labels and labels get debated here constantly. Maybe it would...

SweetIonis,

In your earlier posts, you sounded genuinely interested in other people's perspective. In particular, I think you were trying to understand the term bi-gendered. Somewhere along the...

Giselle,

I can't help you with finding a therapist but if your wife wants to talk to a GG who has some experience and is accepting, I'd be happy to speak with her. PM me if you think that would...

SweetIonis,

My contention is not at all put to rest. TSs tell me gender identity cannot be imposed. And while I agree that the term "pink fog" can mean different things to different people,...

Sweetionis,

You wrote:

Then due to positive feedback this led to more activity which led to more of the behavior. I also put forward the notion that this led to an EXPANSION into other types...

I've heard exactly what you are describing on this forum and in real life. So you're not alone.

Speck

SweetIonis,

I actually agree that changes need to be made in order to express your true self. However, the type and degree of changes that are needed to be emotionally healthy would depend on...

SweetIonis,

I think I understand what you are saying. Here's how I see it after a ton of research but admittedly no first hand experience so please take it with a grain of salt.

Let's take...

Here's another perspective from a GG...

In my lifetime, I've been very fortunate to get many compliments from men. However, I would classify the types of compliments into two main categories:
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I think it's interesting to speculate but there's a point at which a puzzle is too difficult to maintian my interest. I've spent countless hours on researching this topic. There's just not enough...

Nice try Frederique! I have wondered for a very long time why I find this section of the forum so difficult. I don't really have an answer but I try to stay away from this section as much as...

I tried to say this very thing in another post but since I'm a GG some CDs thought I was simply being nasty. I'm glad you've been able to make the point and no one has jumped all over for it.
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Danni Renee,

Hi. GG here. Just wanted to say that I understand. I don't care if you call it lying or being deceitful. I think what you're saying is that you had (and still have to those other...

Did you spend any time trying to understand specifically what she saw as being the similarities? If so, what insight did she provide? I can't imagine that she thinks CDing is a communicable...

Duana, I agree with your first statement above as I'm sure would the thousands of woman who weren't told about the crossdressing until they'd invested a great deal in a relationship.


I also...