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For what it's worth, and a big grain of salt, I scored 170 (probable TS) on the COGIATI and for the BBC test I got a female 50.

To add to the fun, on both hands my ring and pointer are almost exactly the same, w/ both rings being slightly shorter. In the name of (non) science ;)

I was also surprised Reine, the results were surprising being in the CD sub forum. In the TS forum there wouldn't be any need to post it. I know girls come and go between sub forums, so maybe that...

You should read a recent thread, 'Wow that was fast'. It goes through a scenario similar to yours. The outcome was positive but didn't start that way.

Maybe true for most, but I roomed w/ a lady that walked like an elephant! I lived below and could always hear her walking... I mean tromping above me.

I haven't been here long Anne but I can understand your decision. Take time to heal yourself and family, the forum will be here when/if you decide to come back. I know what depression is like and...

Ahh, this topic is one I'm currently exploring. There's a thread in the TS forum, but the 'answers' are a bit different than for a CD. Either way it's tricky and full of grey lines. I don't think...

Yes, a GG would be best but probably may have trouble describing. Maybe Reine will be by, I'm sure she's helped her SO in that arena?

I find if you simply place one foot in front of the other it...

You can watch videos on Youtube for ideas. A quick basic answer is to have good posture and lead w/ the hips.

Ahh, so these were those. Wow, yeah, I'll stick to my natural 34B's too. I feel more natural that way anyhow.

Go to the Clothing/Accessory sub forum. They discuss forms there quite a bit ;) I don't know much about them, I'm using my natural B's for now but plan on getting forms in the near future.

Congrats! So your wife is cool w/ HRT? That's awesome! Or are you in a lesbian relationship? Either way that's great.

Welcome aboard ;) Your story is not unlike many here and by the way, as you found out, it never leaves. I'm still grasping to find my place in the TG world too. Glad to hear you're embracing...

Yes, I have to decide myself if I will cross that line as well. I too feel/know that I'm closer to the TS line but how far idk. After shutting those feelings out for so long I have to seek where I...

I use to think there were only CD's, even if one wanted to be woman. Sure, I knew some got SRS, but thought that was for the wealthy few. I have wanted to be girl since childhood but then shut...

We all were/are in your place. Like already mentioned, take it slow and don't rush. I'm not always good at following my own advice but do heed ;)

I was in a similar place in my 20's. Now in my...

Very good point. I wasn't thinking of that at first but from a basic human standpoint of being pleasant vs not, however, this does not excuse their reactions/negative remarks, you are right. She...

Before I found this forum I thought if you wore women's clothing you were a CD, plain and simple. Now that I've found this and other places, I know it's much deeper than that. I'm re-evaluating my...

Exactly, she had the chip from the first tassel w/ security and carried it throughout. If she was pleasant and nice, sure, some may still have made comments, but I'm guessing more would be pleasant,...

Learning about the TG spectrum and where I fit in it (still learning). I use to think we all got lumped into a simple CD category before this forum. I finding out that there's more to it than just...

I wouldn't let it sway you. Sounds like she had a chip on her shoulder that day, and that doesn't help anyone. If she was pleasant and smiled I wonder if she would've got that reaction from...

Hey, that's the same bra size as me ;) You must be a skinny girl like myself. Are your a natural B cup too?

My pleasure Farrah ;) It's great to hear people w/ heritage taking part in this thread.

I hear you Lori, I appreciate your perspective on this. I think that history in general can sometimes be...

Thanks for the added insight Schatten and Lynn. Another good link Jorja, it seems a lot of native cultures embrace us, or once did. Yes Pythos, how nice it'd be to be highly regarded...

Thanks for the link, I'll definitely watch it. It sounds exactly like what I said earlier; accepted in earlier times but after colonization not so much. Looks to be riveting and a must see, thanks...