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My feminine wardrobe is definitely meant to extend my masculinity rather than to adopt/adapt femininity. I HATE seeing my face without my beard. but I shave/trim everything from the neck to just...

I can totally relate to the feeling of my wife trying to accept but pulling away when faced with the reality of whatever item I might be wearing. It feels like rejection, since what I might be...

I've been taking weekly testosterone injections for about a decade now. It does not effect my desire to dress. I'm more androgynous, hybrid, man-in-a dress rather than attempting to appear as a...

The fact that another GG is in on the loop before your wife is a major red flag. Wherever your tastes take you, if any one thing is gonna blow up in your face, that's it.

Nice interaction! I've mentioned being on the forum before to my wife and she wasn't thrilled but didn't really say much. It hasn't come up again. I guess it might be time to casually mention it...

To me, the most touching part is that her response was very much premeditated. To go to the trouble to purchase and wrap a gift like that shows a sincere desire to make amends and a connection. Seems...

Life is complicated. There are complications for which I might take a pill, but crossdressing isn't near the top of the list. Virtually every pill I've ever taken has potential negative side effects,...

I'm not one to throw the word "fetish" around much. The need to redefine the word in order to "be justified" defeats the idea of "definition" in the first place. I can "feel justified" to crossdress,...

That's cool. It's always good to get some affirmation.

Unfortunately, no. I'd hinted that I wouldn't mind replacing my faux pearls with a fairly inexpensive string of the real thing. So, we ended up buying HER a really nice set of pearls with a bracelet...

Char, Dutchess, Di,

Thanks for your feedback. It is very nice that the three of you are generous with your thoughtful, truthful and diplomatic opinions on such a wide variety of the subjects...

I think Phili has a valid point. It might be a good time to ask her to sit for a chat and ask her what her dreams, fantasies and feelings are for your relationship and for her as a woman. There are...

I am a late starter at crossdressing, starting in my mid-fifties and lasting the last ten years so far... My experience has been that there's an inverse relationship between how 'sexy' I feel and how...

My first thought is about the flip side. If your wife becomes comfortable with even the idea that you might respond to another man's advance, what is stopping her from having thoughts about men's...

For my wife, the issue is less size than styles that are available to me versus her. I've got lots of cute stuff that get a comment of "I wish I could still dress like that" when she sees me in...

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It's a cool story. But, the first question that comes to mind is "Was there something specific you were wearing that she seemed to appreciate, or was it just being with you dressed?" My wife...

I'm lovin' this series of questions...



Your assumptions are correct in my case. I started out trying on a few pairs of my wife's panties in my mid-fifties. I didn't like hiding it so I talked...

I would definitely not send a text. I would either leave it alone or wait for an opportunity to talk personally. I've had the old adage, that you NEVER put anything like that in writing, play out...

Diplomatic criticism could be nice. Even if I felt a little defensive, I think I'd appreciate it overall.



Bea is the phonetic of one of my male initials. I don't have a girl side. I see my...

Funny, a recent post about earrings has me thinking about going for it. Earrings has been on my wife's HATED list since way before I started dressing. I didn't have much of an opinion one way or the...

I started an informal journal years before i started dressing. It was just a spiral notebook that I'd scribbled some random thoughts into. My wife found the notebook, read an entry very much out of...

I'd like an 18" strand of cultured pearls to replace the cheap costume necklace that I have now. I kinda hinted but don't know that she picked it up as a request. It would be even better if it...

Actual enthusiastic appreciation from my wife. I get willing acceptance at present and am thankful for that. But, I wish she could truly my taste as an ideal rather than a diversion into a flawed...

I'd say fitting into the LGBTQ spectrum would depend on the reasons for dressing. I'm not gay, don't identify as a woman and don't dress to appear to be a woman so I don't fit into any of the...