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I dress because I savor and enjoy the pseudo feminine feelings that come with the look, the preparations, the restrictions and demeanor required for acting the role... and the simple fun that just...

To my eyes, there is a special look when a female wears pants correctly. It seems incredibly female to me, nicely waisted and with a fitting upper thigh, gently belled, together with heeled sandals...

Stacy: If I have picked up the message correctly, you only get to do this life one time, and opportunities missed are generally exactly that... missed. I, at age 74, often think of the things I...

Comfort zone: There are those of us who fear "what might happen" should they venture into any public area - wow, that doesn't leave a very large comfort zone. There are those of us who will partially...

I believe that the desire to dress is now wholly included in my life, who I am, and who I would like to be. It used to be that it was something to feel guilty about, to hide, ...to be ashamed of -...

So far there has not been a single negative on the urge to crossdress becoming stronger as one gets older. And it is true for me also.

Early in this thread there was a notion here that as...

Wow, lots of "long hairs" in this group! My hair length is just past my bra strap. However, and that's the key word here, I have a fairly good sized bald spot developing on my crown. The result is...

Karren Hutton has the answer, Practice a lot. I would think that most of her portrait pics are probably shot with her camera at arm's length. You can take dozens of pics in a just a few minutes that...

OK, reading this thread, and loving it by the way(!), I am working on my smile - something with which I have always had serious trouble, generally just looking like an idiot! (Or idiot-esse...)

So...

If our situation were to be identified as genetically based or, say, as a dysphoria, there might be a greater possibility of inclusion or acceptance. However, I don't see that ever happening.

In...

I would believe that the notion of "peaking" only has value when used in comparison to previous or succeeding rates of change. When I was a managing engineer, that term had a great usage - but I...

I am one notch more mature than most of us... here at this forum, and I really don't think about it all very much anymore. It's just the way I am. I am occasionally more interested and involved in...

What I am: A great deal of the time I am an everyday American male, doing his part in today's society. Other parts of time, I am a fairy non typical male dressed in everyday women's clothing or in...

95% of the time that I go out en-femme, it is to my BDSM group's parties and activities - it would seem I am unconditionally accepted there

Occasionally, there is another "dressed" crossdresser,...

The attraction! For me it is ankles and feet together with the shoes and stockings. I am just nuts 'bout that characteristic! I will follow them anywhere! Sometimes I don't even notice the upper body...

No one ever addressed the notion that it specifically was taboo... somehow I just accepted a socialized dictum that it was so. Crossdressing was laughed at as humorous in movies, ridiculed in jokes,...

:eek: ...either one of them, actually!

I was about 7 years old. My divorced parents took me out for an afternoon together. My mother's sandal strap became broken, and my father spent a good deal of time on his knees attending to her ankle...

No, but it would be interesting. What are these stats???



Right on! ...that crossdressing only describes an action. Somehow that makes me feel better - about myself. Thank you for that thought....

Exactly - GG's simply don't need any-one's help, succor, assistance, friendship or guidance to dress in unisex or male clothing - there are no restrictions, no negative social mores, no one to say no...

I think of the many movies and TV shows where the woman goes into "his" closet and returns wearing only one of his shirts - Wow, cool! And somehow, oh so sexual! But if he were to do the same with...

Of course it is correct, that no one can make us feel anything - we do it ourselves. We sense an input and we react as we choose. Well, that's almost right but not completely and not all the time.
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Kim - I think you will be even more happy if you were to lower your expectations a bit, 'cause I don't think it's gonna happen! :daydreaming:

I am happy for you, and hope that all will work as you would hope it will. As I read what you wrote, I was thinking you live in wonderland but I was wrong, it is the UK. (Hehe...)

Actually I know...

Looking into my mirror during and after makeup is an absolute delight! I see a woman looking pretty much like the one that I would love to be with! "Making up" is indeed a beautiful time, and...