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Tinkerbell -
I believe that, by and large, there's a big-time fetishy aspect at play here.

But that doesn't necessarily tie to the large amounts of clothing some people acquire. For me, I'll...

1. I am not out to her or anyone, except here.
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3. Based on her reaction to various things over the years, she would not be supportive if I came out; it would strain our marriage; and it...

Trying to justify theft by saying "It was open" doesn't hold up. Commercial businesses provide services and products for their clientele, for profit, for the benefit of the business, officers,...

Thank you, GGs, for answering my question about buying something for your SO. It's probably meaningless to draw conclusions from 4 responses, but I was surprised by your answers. I expected more...

Hi, GGs -

If you have ever bought your CD SO anything feminine when (s)he wasn't with you, then I'd like to ask you two questions about the first time you did that.

What did you buy, and how...

Celeste - You're quite right - I didn't catch the true meaning in your words :-) , but either way I just enjoyed listing some of the Great Ones. I still want to learn to play the guitar someday -...

"(no good guitarists in Texas!!!}"

:eek:"What?????", was my first reaction. Then I realized that, probably unintentionally, the OP was correct.

There are GREAT guitarists in Texas!!!

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Yes.

I am married, a father, and completely in the closet.

There's a woman who's a member here and her husband's CDing and related behaviors have caused her a world of pain. She and I would PM...

Well, there's that cool anti-uniboob song by The Offspring, "Gotta Keep Em Separated".
There's that Cyndi Lauper song about how you feel when you're wearing breastforms, "The Girls Just Want To Have...

Family. That's why no one will ever ask me this question, because I'm in the closet to protect my family.

Frédérique - I always enjoy reading your letters, and your words today are beautiful and true, with one exception.

You said "I must dress to be beautiful". I know that is not true, because your...

My take on it is that you're not truly straight if you get turned on by someone of your own gender (genetic gender). But I also have no wish to become female, so maybe that's why it seems clear-cut...

Yes, very happy in the closet. I don't understand why I have these desires, so why would I want to add that burden to my wife or anyone else? Why take the risk?

I guess you could say that my CD...

Cassandra: How do I keep this hidden for 30 years and counting??? Keep *nothing* in the house. If it's in the house, it will be found, as too many of our forum members here understand too well.

Easy to answer this one: 100% hetero. 100% attracted to women as long as I can remember. 100% married for 30 years.

-- Jenny

Definitely not in the house. If it's on the premises, it'll be found eventually. I keep it in a locker off-site, with no identifying items (nothing with my name, etc.) in it. Learned my lesson...

Here's 2 that no one's mentioned yet:
* Love American Style. Those cute actresses in mini skirts and go-go boots and long hair...
* Anything with Adrienne Barbeau. Even including Maude, as long...

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Yes. I found out that I am. After buying and wearing skirts and dresses and lingerie for 25 years, you know, the pieces just kind of came together... LOL! :D

I'm 50-ish, been married 30-ish years, and haven't told my wife.

10 years ago, she found a few items of clothing, and I explained it away as just a temporary thing. She hasn't brought it up...

34) Not saying it is wrong I am just wanting to understand. Why the seeming obsession with panties? All the threads about them? I just do not get it.
I don't get it, either. Now, BRAS, on the other...

I was in high school. My girlfriend lived nearby, and her parents were away on vacation and she was working one afternoon. I knew that there was one door that didn't lock, so I went over and let...

So, a few months ago, I found a website that some of you might be familiar with. Yvonnesplace.net. A crossdresser for many years, obviously, who, earlier this year, wrote a column and publicly...

", and I thought I was coy by hiding one of her nightgowns between the mattress & the box spring,"

I used the same hiding place, Nathalie! Ha! Your letter made me laugh. I kept a bra and half...

28) When you eventually tell her, is it because you no longer want to live a lie, or is it because you are seeking to explore your femme side more than you can when you keep it under wraps?
-- Both....