When it comes to the our community - CD, GNC, Trans, Andro, whatever; we are all at different points in our journey and we are all a different points of how comfortable we are when it comes to being...
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When it comes to the our community - CD, GNC, Trans, Andro, whatever; we are all at different points in our journey and we are all a different points of how comfortable we are when it comes to being...
Great post and well said Paula. I came out and started my journey/transition back in late 2013. And since then I have become highly active in the LGBTQ community. I currently work as a community...
Hi Amy,
I know where your coming from...I'm36yrd old and for most of my life I had dealt with shame, guilt, fear, and denial. And up until like 2yrs ago, I kept who I was a secret from the world...
36 from Vallejo/SF Bay Area
The first thing I ever bought were a pair of grey boots from Payless.
By my very nature, I am very feminine. And growing up as a child, I often was drawn to girly things and at school I was teased at how I walked, the way I looked, or the way I acted. I did not know...
I have contacted several lawyers, but have not gotten any returned calls. There is one that I have meet with a couple times since Jan, but not helpful. So I have been relying on the self help center,...
So it look like her latest tatic is filing a restraining order against me; in which I have to show up to a hearing tommorrow morning. She's trying to do everything in her power to win and honestly i...
I have been in your shoes and for 5 years, I juggled the desire to be my true self and what was expected of me as a man being married and having a family. I would feel guilty, ashamed, and purge;...
It's time to get my ducks in a row and use the same system my ex is trying use against me. She also knows the system since she is a licensed social worker. I have talked to a couple lawyers so it's a...
I was told by many that the road of transition will not be easy and I have already experienced a lot of issues to me comming out to people being transgendered. While there has been a great deal of...
So I have started my process of transitioning and been on my own for a few months now. And things between me and my ex are still a little strained at times and hopefully our relationship will improve...
My day never has a dull moment and today the same student that said I smell girly, caught me off gaurd when he came up to me while I was with a couple other students and adults and said something to...
There have been many times where I felt alone, alone, and isolated. I haven even gotten to the point of social thoughts, not a great place to be in. They are very common feelings that everyone...
I work with many school districts and agencies around the Bay Area as an independent contractor/consultant. Providing services as a behaviorist for those diagnosed with disabilities or have behavior...
It's been a while since I wrote a post other then showing pictures as I progress through my journey. Things have been crazy stressful with all it's ups and down life is throwing my way. I try to keep...
As others have already said, if your GF allowed u wear her clothes, then it's okay. But it's always better to have enough clothes, that if you are doing laundry, you still have clean bras and panties...
So on Friday eve, I decided to go visit my mom, who lives about three hours away. I do enjoy visiting my mom because she and my step dad are very supportive and I know when I visit I am allowed to be...
Everyone has the right to wear whatever they want. Clothing after all is just an extension of who we are and a way to express who we are. Except what is/may be defined by a society in what is or not...
As as a behaviorist, I could say that any behavior, such as CDing, serves 4 functions (either one or a combination of the 4): attention, access, gratification, and/or sensory. So for example, when...
While I have showed people at work photos of through my phone, it never good to bring stuff like that to work, unless you truly know how they will react or are accepting. There been many times I...
I identify myself as a women and while dressing up feels natural and is enjoyable. It is not an important factor for me to have joy and feel sexy and/or beautiful. Being true to myself is the most...
Officially had a meeting with office director and Hr today and it went well. They wanted to know where I was at in my process and about timeline in I plan on coming to work as BillieJo. They are...
Dana, glad here to hear that you have become more accepting of yourself and telling others. I was where you are in acceptance and telling people a few months ago. We spend so much time binding and...
You know I'm writting things down, but I think it's my head playing games, with so many quiencidences. As a behaviorist I work with lots of families, the community, and people at schools. So I know...