I agree with Paula, I thought that I was a crossdresser but the crossdressing didn't help, in fact it just made the dysphoria worse. I didn't transition until I was suicidal and had been...
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I agree with Paula, I thought that I was a crossdresser but the crossdressing didn't help, in fact it just made the dysphoria worse. I didn't transition until I was suicidal and had been...
I look a lot like my Mom. My family has all commented on it. Especially before I colored my hair it was the same color and a similar style to what she had in her 40's.
I am a police sergeant in the US so I don't know much about laws in Scotland. First, if crossdressing in the UK is legal then the officer can't charge you for breach of the peace for being out in...
87% female, 13% male...the brain of a girly girl. I wish I had known about this test before I spent a lot of money and several years on counseling. I could have started transitioning years ago.
My wife has known for a while but we recently decided to tell everyone because we are most likely separating. So now our adult sons, my family, her family and all our close friends know. I was...
I received this text from my sister-in-law last night. "Finally went through my shoes. I have about 20 pair that you can have if you want." She dropped them off at my house while I was at work. ...
Thank you everyone for all the nice comments, and thank you especially to Susan for meeting with me. Your support gave me the confidence I needed for the weekend.
Previously I have been to Tri Ess meetings, at TG friendly places and to the movies twice. Each time accompanied by my wife. Both times the movie theater was empty and my wife interacted with...
I can relate. I am 5'5" and I have heard all the short jokes. Being a short male has a lot of disadvantages but it has been great when going out dressed. Even in heels I blend in because there are...
This may be the wrong place to post this, but I am all dressed up and nowhere to go. I have only been to Tri Ess meetings before but tonight I have the opportunity to go out somewhere more public. ...
Before I told my wife I was given some advice to throw away all my clothes and not tell my wife that I had them. I didn't do this, but instead sat her down, opened up to her and was 100% honest. I...
Thank you everyone for all the comments and compliments. :o …and yes, this was a great thing for my wife to do for me, and I have told her several times how much I appreciate it.
Thanks,...
My first time out in public was last month with my wife at a Tri Ess meeting at a member’s house. This month the meeting was at a local restaurant so my wife had said that she was not ready for me...
I bought my clothes and shoes online and kept them in a duffle bag in the closet. I used my wife’s makeup. I also bought two new pairs of shoes last year, and hid them in a suitcase in the...
Not until 1994 when I got my first computer and AOL. Before then I only knew of DRAG queens, gay prostitutes, and serial killers, from TV shows and movies. I knew I wasn’t any of these and...
I recently got to shave my legs and lost about 20 pounds. I love having the shaved legs because it makes me feel so much more in tune with how I feel on the inside. And no one notices or cares...
Thank you! I can only speak from this one experience but either people didn’t notice, didn’t care, or were too polite to say anything. I agree that people are just too busy living their own...
My wife has been very supportive of my crossdressing but is only comfortable with it if I stay at home. I have never been out of the house and wanted a chance go out. My counselor also thought that...
Congratulations. Take it slow and be aware that her acceptance may fluctuate as she tries to get used to this. I highly recommend that you read "Now I Like It, Now I Don't" in the Loved One's...
I'm sorry to hear that. My wife pretended it didn't exist for 13 years until I sat her down last year and told her again. We have been on a roller coaster since then and there have been a lot of...
Thanks Janet and Molly. We have asked our son not to tell his brother and I'm sure that he wont. My older son turned 21 this weekend so we didn't want to potentially ruin his birthday weekend. And...
On Friday night my wife and I told our youngest son that I was a crossdresser. He is almost 19 and gay. I was at work Friday night and my wife sent me a text stating that she was having a good talk...
Yes we are a diverse bunch. I know of two others in my area, one from my department. We are all in the closet, because despite being professional to the public, it is not an accepting profession to...
Yes I feel the same. I also don't get to dress very often and when I do it is usually for no more than a couple of hours. I really enjoy my time when I am dressed, and I feel depressed when I have...
This was my first chance to dress in about a month so I was producing a lot of pink fog...but enough to cover Phoenix? Maybe I wasn't the only one yesterday:D
Hi Babs, I have had a few...