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When you are clear and certain about your feelings, tell her about them. If you are deeply confused about your feelings, either say nothing, or tell her you're confused when confronted. Don't say...

I think it's very natural for a GG in the first phases of acceptance to question her own feminity in relation to a CDing H. There can be an irrational thought process that makes us think that somehow...

I should clarify that apparently that North Dixie Highway stretch of road is indeed Wilton Manors. Wilton Manors is the place to go for sure.

OMG - the Ft. Lauderdale world's your oyster. The entire gay scene has left Miami and moved to Ft. Lauderdale. Now, anytime my husband wants to explore his femme side, we have to schlep on up to...

Samantha X - be careful. Be very careful. I completely agree with the other GGs on this board, but if your wife actually threatened to blackmail you or wreck your career (and lest we forget, my...

Easy there, Cord. I used to develop lingerie for Victoria's Secret, and darn it, I took pride in my work.

That said, my passion in college and for most of my career was lingerie. I've sold it,...

Do you dress because you really feel like a woman trapped in a man's body sometimes? Or is this the dividing line between CD and TS?

In other words, do CDs dress because it just somehow feels...

That's so awesome!!! Congratulations!!!

Absolutely. Anybody who likes anything pretty is indeed considered to be female.

It's a little know fact, but Buddy Holly was actually female, as evidenced in his song "Chantilly Lace."

I've seen this question asked on the forum before, and while I think its good to remind ourselves to treat others how we wish to be treated, I don't think that most of the CDs on this board can look...

Wow. Your story makes me want to vomit in my mouth. How horrible that you had to endure such injustice.

Please don't give these bigoted morons power over your future. Make the transition you want...

There is nothing wrong with you being a CD, but it's probably not the best foot to lead with.

Per what I have learned from watching the Millionaire Matchmaker (take it for what it's worth...

So glad you decided to ask her first. Your SO sounds pretty accepting, so even if she's not ready now it sounds as though she soon will be.

I LOVE it when my man tells me that (and calls me sugartits). :heehee:

I am still looking for a Jessica Alba potion.

Awesome, don't ever try to "jolt" a woman into acceptance - that almost never works. Sometimes, non-accepting women become genuinely traumatized by such things. Even if she accepts your dressing, by...

Well now that you put it that way, I think maybe I'd want to switch and be a man during PMS. How hard can it be? You open a few jars, kill a few spiders, pound a few beers...

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How many days of the week would you choose to be female? And how many would you choose to be male?

Oh Itkthys, I understand you wanting to answer the question of "why do I want to?" I would strongly recommend you find a psychiatrist to learn the answer. No one knows why some people are...

I don't think you should mention CDing in your ad. I think that's something that should wait until at least after 1 good date. I think the odds are in your favor if you tell a girl after she decides...

Ignorance is just the worst. I am struggling with this issue myself with my in-laws who unwittingly make statements like this around their own closeted son.

I guess we just need to educate...

Personally, I prefer GG. A common term used by Savage Love followers is GGG (Good, Giving, Game) which is what everybody should be in bed.

So I am proud to be a GGGGG.

And for the CDs, I...

Honestly, I really doubt they have a clue. It just so happens we live in a very tran-rich neighborhood, we visited Key West (VERY drag/gay friendly), and the state they are from (Illinois) just made...

When I found out last April that my Husband was a CD, I had NO IDEA the very worst part of it would be his family.

My H's parents and uncle just finished up a fairly long family holiday visit. We...

Can you use an electric razor over a grabage can first? I imagine if you do this first, that a quick razor shave would be very easy.