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Okay I have a different story. I told my best friend and his fiancee a couple weeks ago and it may have been the best decision of my life. They have been sooo accepting and supportive, and we've all...

sometimes_miss, attraction isn't a decision or judgment, it's a feeling -- nobody here is saying that they believe they are hottest girl in their home state. Nobody here is being conceited with their...

Wow congrats Nikki! I am in awe of you! I've been toying with the idea of telling my sister, and can only hope that she'll respond in such a thoughful way. Look forward to hearing how things develop...

Thanks for all the encouragement to give it another try! I did, and thought I should give an update:

So between yesterday and today, I had a perfect storm of circumstances that led to me taking a...

That's awesome Justina, thanks for sharing! At what point in getting each other did you tell them?

++++! I agree and though I'm new around here, I do feel like that kind of elitist mentality is really toxic to any community

Thanks for kind words Amy! I actually questioned that myself and went on the church website and saw that the trans support group was the only meeting there that day, so felt a little more sure that I...

I'm 31 and trying to come to terms with CDing, which has been a theme throughout my life, but has only become something substantial in my life (ie, a semi-regular thing) in last 8 years or so. I've...

A little background: I've always been totally closeted, keeping this a secret like my life depends on it (really has felt that way). However I recently started seeing a sex therapist and have told...

Yep, definitely do not find dressing as enjoyable the more masculine looking I am. A few months ago I decided to try to use this to my advantage to help curb my CDing (due to it interfering with my...

I don't really get the people who refuse to consider this question. Maybe it's not worth obsessing over, but still I think it's a good question to ask of ourselves if we're open to honest...

Thanks for the thoughtful reply Ineke! You're right that CDing won't give you diabetes and that the negative effects are mainly from other people that aren't willing to accept it (though admittedly I...

Just wanted to say I feel where you're coming from... I've thought about telling my mom, and think she would probably be cool about it, but also feel like it might be a burden for her to keep a...

I'm fully closeted and haven't ever disclosed CDing to an SO, but can definitely relate to sexual desires shifting as you described, so just my thoughts... Personally, I feel like although the sexual...

Jennifer, the "sound advice" was referring to the users comment that the desire to crossdress is not something that ever goes away (implying that to stop doing it is not really an option at all -- I...

In this thread, OP posted the following


and one of the responses was this:



This seems like pretty sound advice, but to be honest this is something I personally struggle with because it...