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What a wonderful and thoughtful post Suzanne. Thanks for Sharing.

Taking a nice long soak in a hot bath is near the top of my list, especially on a cold night like this!

I live on a cul-de-sac too, and the houses right next to mine are both owned by college students, most of whom wrestle for the university. Some are nice but some are real jerks, and I really worry...

Just because some of us choose to see a therapist doesn't mean we think there is something wrong with us that needs to be cured or that we're having problems accepting who we are. Maybe it simply...

I attended marriage counseling, and then saw a therapist during the divorce, and at various times over the last couple of years. It helps to a certain extent to talk and get a fresh perspective. I'm...

Military Policeman
firefighter (wildland)
environmental clean-up and demolition for the Gov

I now do administrative work for a university

Hopefully I'll have another job to add to the list...

I have never considered suicide because I always believed there was never any situation that was worth killing yourself over and that would not eventually get better. However, at times during the...

I used to feel a lot of guilt in my younger days, but now I'm learning to accept that this is who I am and that it's okay. It took a long time to realize that just because society views this as wrong...

I think I’ve finally turned the corner on this whole self-acceptance issue. Not sure what led to this moment of clarity, but I’ll gladly take it! While I would love to be passable and stroll...

Too late...I'm already crazy!!!

Thanks Misty, you made some really good points. I could probably do better at relaxing and not over-thinking things. As the Eagles so aptly put it, "So often times it happens that we live our lives...

I agree that you have to have good communication in order for a relationship to work, and that this is something that needs to be discussed. As you said it's hard to know the right way to bring it...

You're right, and I thought a lot about this while considering whether or not to start dating. Being confident in who you are is a very important part of the impression you give off. I guess maybe I...

You're right that I shouldn't assume it will be a "make or break" issue, and I agree that the more important aspects of a successful relationship are honesty and communication, which all point...

You're right that a relationship that isn't built on honesty and good communication is more than likely doomed to fail. It's just hard to expose that part of myself to someone and risk being...

Sorry for posting this when Rhonda Jean already had a thread going on the same topic. I hadn't read the forums before I made my post.

Well gosh Mary, thank you ever so much for your compassion and empathy and understanding. There are other things I might be tempted to say, but that wouldn't be very lady-like, and I don't want to...

In an earlier post someone made the comment that oftentimes it comes down to making a choice between being in a relationship or CDing, and how difficult it was to be in that situation. And yes, I do...

Thanks for all the wonderful replies! It's helped a lot hearing your thoughts, and I'll definitely soon be composing a letter.



What a wonderful and touching letter Tracy; thank you for sharing...

Way to go Jaydee!!! You're so right about how wonderful nylon feels on smooth skin!

Rebecca

There’s something that concerns me which I don’t recall seeing discussed here before. I have two sons who don’t know that I'm a crossdresser, and it worries me that if something were to...

Kimberly,
As some many have already said, you are a wonderful person and you have a heart of gold. You continue to inspire us in so many ways. Please be careful.

Rebecca

Hi Susan,
I was just like you; having shaved my legs in the winter but letting the hair grow back during the summer, until this year. I finally shaved them a couple of weeks ago, and no one has said...

Hi Bobi Jean,
I'm from central Missouri. I bet you don't miss the weather out here; it's been really hot and humid the past two weeks. I see you live in California now. I'm originally from the Bay...

I also love reading about your experiences and seeing what is possible when you have confidence and are secure in who you are. Makes me want to run out and get some boobies!