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Thanks Bev :), it's not lost on me that both situations could have gone south for me. I know that despite support some people just can't get past actually seeing a man in feminine clothing.

And...

In the last few months I have had a couple of small cding experiences in front of two different friends (besides my best friend Greenie of course).

The first was when my SO and her best friend...

This was really encouraging Isha, thanks so much :)

Becky, I think you missed the point of my post. I never said that dressing feminine makes one a better cleaner.

I'd like to think that it's more just doing normal things that make it feel kinda good rather than having the feminine clothing be the thing that domesticates me. Cleaning is a normal everyday thing...

I feel better about cding when I am doing something useful (which so far is just cleaning), but I feel less guilty about cding when I actually participate in chores (the guilt is just an old self...

1) What is the number one reason you wear feminine clothing?

I honestly feel happy inside when I do. I'm not sure how to describe it but when I do I just feel like it's okay to like feeling...

For me I guess I'm just more or less the same that way. I mean I am sure that I act different went I am dressed or am wearing something, but I like to think that I am the same person no matter what...

That's a really sweet little story, aren't those small surprises some if the best? Ps- sometimes I think I try to ton down the excitement as well, kind of like a little kid who wants to look cool.

I think this would be such a cool thing to do, the third pair of boots are real cute by the way!

For me, it can feel good just to talk to someone about cding (I mean physically speak). So it can feel like a pretty good day when even after I tell my SO that I'm just a little jealous of her new...

I still have a ways to go before I figure out what this aspect of me looks like, but I like the idea of just having my hair and being a little more me than trying to pass as a lady. Thanks for the...

I have always struggled with self esteem, I have been known for feeling sorry for myself. I think that despite being encouraged and told things like "no one can love you if you can't love...

I'm still working on coping on my own, fortunately for me I have a wonderful SO that pulls it out of me with all of her might so I can't bottle it all up when I don't cope well.

It kind of feels like my SO as already knows what there is about me. I don't know what I need her to know that she already doesn't (she can really see right through me most of the time, she is the...

I am 23, Greenie's SO, and work with adults with developmental disabilities. Like Greenie said, my wardrobe is small. She got me most of my things, but she is getting good at picking things I like....

I guess I really am just insecure about it. I don't need or expect any bedroom play when I dress in front of her, but I do let my insecurities affect me otherwise. If she seems put off I fear that...

Thank you all for the nice responses, I do want to clarify though that it's not necessarily because I feel ostracized or anything. I just feel a bit unable to relate here. Now it's worth noting that...

I like the first one you showed(but a lot of women color their hair and I don't know if that will matter really), but Greenieis right, Ginnifer Goodwin is a good place to start.

You enjoy seeing me in pain, don't you?

Also, I can't feel my toes anymore. You killed my toes.

I asked my SO Greenie earlier this evening if she could paint my toenails. She did, but some of my toes tend to naturally rest on each other and some of my nails smudged. GREENIE ended up repainting...

I have always felt weird about this because this started as sexual for me as well in my teens. It still is and I often get visibly excited when I dress and I find it embarrassing. I know that it is a...

I usually wear my birthday suit unless I know it's going to be hot, then it's pj bottoms and a t else I might sweat through the sheets (yikes), but from time to time I like to sleep in one of my...

I'm sorry she doesn't realize how hurtful a comment like that can be. Buck up though, when Greenie first showed me a photo of you (I just joined the forum), we both said "wow, look at that guy with...

This is such a cute and encouraging story, I have found that it's those moments with my SO that feel the best. Maybe I feel prettier, maybe its because it's nice to have someone besides yourself to...