I had been 'sort of' outed by someone we both knew. I felt if we were going to go forward with the relationship, I'd have to completely open up to her. Things were touch and go for a while...
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I had been 'sort of' outed by someone we both knew. I felt if we were going to go forward with the relationship, I'd have to completely open up to her. Things were touch and go for a while...
If I were looking at 30, as opposed to 60...yeah I might stay.
I'm a plus size girl. So I follow, admire and 'try' to style myself after themhttps://pin.it/7lf1l6y322117
Has anyone else to taken into consideration the financial component of purging? Depending upon your wardrobe, you can easily be discarding hundreds or even several thousands of dollars in clothing,...
The confusion here was on behalf of my S.O. She was unsure about which her perceived part of my personality made the assessment and comments about her outfits. She still sees me as a dual...
I guess my definition of DADT is a bit different. I look at it here as she knows, but doesn't support or speak about my dressing. There's been no noticable change in her attitude towards my dressing...
So my S.O asked my opinions about 3 separate pantsuits she bought for the office. I told her two of them were complimentary to her skin tone and figure. The last one, not so much.
She went on to...
I've fantasized about it. It's always been enough to dress up for me though.
Off topic a bit. I've never had a trigger per say. The desire is always there. I liken it to the imaginery characters from "A Beautiful Mind". There have been extended periods when I don't dress but,...
Started with Mother's clothes, shoes. It was a thrill, it was exciting. It's morphed over the decades. Now it's about looking as passable as possible but, I don't. It's about feeling comfortable with...
Caught more than a handful of times. Most vivid is when I was doing laundry, in a apartment building I used to live in.
The laundry room was open 24/7. It was least busy late in the night and...
I've stopped like many of us, for various reasons. The desire/need/want to dress never has. I liken it to the imaginary characters that were constantly in the mind of John Nash from the movie "A...
Can't speak for anyone else but, I started partially dressing in my mother's things at a young age. So the desire to do it is something I've never associated with not having a partner.
I've never...
My list has just two items. One I prefer to keep to myself.
The other one is a walk into MAC or Sephora in boy mode, leave in girl mode for a nail appointment and then a photo shoot.
We have a good sized utility closet, in our basement, we also use for storage. I converted an old wooden wardrobe chest to hold my things in. Both the closet and my chest have locks on them, to avoid...
That's very thought provoking. You sound like my therapist Alice :o But to answer your question....yes.
I just spent a few hours looking at myself. I treated myself to a few new garments and make up palette. I moved an old mirror next to my PC's screen, while doing some work from home. I look over at...
Haven't posted in quite sometime, just too busy! I'm closeted and DADT is the relationship status. She's known before we got married but, I still get comments or questions as if I came out yesterday....
I was 24 or 25, after I moved out of my childhood home. I graduated college and had gotten job which (financially) allowed me to live on my own. I think I spent almost every weekend for the first...
I agree with you Deebra. There was a ten year period, in my single-post collegiate life, when I could dress as I wanted. While I do love my family life today, I wish I had that situation today....
Sounds a like a very pleasant evening, good for you! :)
I have always thought and still do think, that from the neck up I can pass with the right make up and wig. However the rest of the criteria is too much to overcome.
P = Pass F =Fail
Here...
My first apartment was 1\2 of a duplex, in a neighboring town from where I grew up. I didn't know anyone and to my knowledge, no one knew me. So I felt very comfortable ordering anything dressing...
I do have dreams on a yearly basis, not weekly or even monthly, about dressing. Almost all of them involved a combination of driving, shopping, eating out, going to a salon, etc... I assume it's a...
I don't consider myself an addict. I can and have stopped dressing for long periods, up to a year at times. Some unfortunately be that. Addiction is the inability to stop a behavior that has taken...