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    Around here, lots of men wear leggings when...

    Around here, lots of men wear leggings when exercising and even to stores with a pair of shorts even when it is moderately cold. No big deal. Leggings by themselves seem to be viewed as gender...
  2. I think what you call it (i.e. defines what it is...

    I think what you call it (i.e. defines what it is for you) is what it is from your perspective. Others will look at it differently and some won't even notice it. For me, cosplay is an imitation from...
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    I could not agree more Reine. For the foreseeable...

    I could not agree more Reine. For the foreseeable future and mostly in the United States, but also elsewhere, progress will be slow at best and may very well go backwards some. We are a small...
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    So long as the masses view gender as being binary...

    So long as the masses view gender as being binary and nothing else, there will be those who will not accept one gender expressing as the other. The binary perspective is very deeply ingrained in us...
  5. Amelia, I relate fully to what you are saying and...

    Amelia, I relate fully to what you are saying and the difficulty of figuring out exactly who you are. I suspect most of us deal with that once in awhile, if not continuously. It is a journey without...
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    In my experience, it is hard to tell what will...

    In my experience, it is hard to tell what will happen. But things will happen. Some knuckleheads will think you have lost your marbles even though there was no prior indication they would be that...
  7. No, your post is not stupid. It is really...

    No, your post is not stupid. It is really important to bring this up if for no other reason than it apparently disturbs you to some extent. And rightly so.

    I think it is all about the...
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    Me, too. Please tell us the rest of the story and...

    Me, too. Please tell us the rest of the story and the meaning of the comment. Pretty please?
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    You can stop, but it is unlikely you will like...

    You can stop, but it is unlikely you will like the result. Your need is most likely a part of who you are and denying it is part of denying yourself which is usually not a particularly great idea....
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    Genetics is definitely involved. ALL behavior has...

    Genetics is definitely involved. ALL behavior has at least some kind of toe hold in genetics. There is no doubt about that. Furthermore, it has been discovered that there are at least 3,534 genes out...
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    Congratulations, Monica. You are a beautiful...

    Congratulations, Monica. You are a beautiful person and have a thorough grip on the reality of it all. Look around and I suspect you will find an awful lot of women that actually fit the description...
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    Actually, being somewhere in the middle is likely...

    Actually, being somewhere in the middle is likely the most common and natural form of gender variance. It has been discovered recently that neurologically everyone, except about 2%, are a blend of...
  13. First of all, basing decisions using an online...

    First of all, basing decisions using an online test is a big mistake. They are next to worthless. At best they provide a fuzzy indication and are easily biased by the feelings of the moment. Mostly a...
  14. That is a tough situation and decision. I would...

    That is a tough situation and decision. I would want to answer as truthfully as possible, but I don't want to create a severe problem either. If they are going to actually use the information for...
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    At least there is one good thing about Covid....

    At least there is one good thing about Covid. Wonderful and memorable experience for sure.

    I agree with Teresa. Wives are welcome to express their opinion to their husband about having or not...
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    Hi Bobbi, That is a hilarious story. And you...

    Hi Bobbi, That is a hilarious story. And you certainly brought in a good bit of joy to the post office scene. And it ends on such a wonderful and uplifting note of acceptance. Very uplifting, for...
  17. A wonderful and beautiful post, Ellbee. For most...

    A wonderful and beautiful post, Ellbee. For most of us what you describe is often the end point that works best. But then for others it follows a different path. For those like Teresa it follows yet...
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    Like Crissy, the Sears catalog was an excellent...

    Like Crissy, the Sears catalog was an excellent source and inspiring. The lingerie section became a bit more worn than other parts. No doubt that was due to a bit of a lower quality paper, uh, maybe....
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    We tend to look for single causes of things, but...

    We tend to look for single causes of things, but as a biologist myself when it comes to biology single causes are exceedingly rare. Multiple causes seems to pretty much the rule. It is different than...
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    I love your response, Judy. An excellent way to...

    I love your response, Judy. An excellent way to put it and humorous as well. Interestingly, I seem to be in the same phase you are in. It can last a long time - 70 years for me. Hmmm.
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    Steffi, I think you have presented something very...

    Steffi, I think you have presented something very close to what the science says and is also likely on the right track. Your description is right on and I praise you also for bringing up the matter...
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    Gender is not something that you have; it is...

    Gender is not something that you have; it is something that you do. It is behavior and behavior is generated in the brain. Neurologically, males and females are far more alike than they are...
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    Welcome to this forum. You will find a lot of...

    Welcome to this forum. You will find a lot of information, advice, and support here.

    In my opinion, you already have a fairly mature view of your attraction to the female-like behaviors some...
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    It has been a very long time since I had a real...

    It has been a very long time since I had a real purge. But back when I did it involved the conflict between who I was and who I was expected to be. Shame, guilt and many other emotions did enter into...
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    Temporarily quitting just takes getting so...

    Temporarily quitting just takes getting so involved in something else to an intensity that overwhelms the dressing desires. But how long that lasts seems to be a function of more subconscious...
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