Thanks, Karren, for being honest about this. I appreciate your forthrightness.
One of the issues is that it's NOT that CDers changed; many knew they were CDers when they married. So it's about...
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Thanks, Karren, for being honest about this. I appreciate your forthrightness.
One of the issues is that it's NOT that CDers changed; many knew they were CDers when they married. So it's about...
The last line is the right idea. Why wait until you're confronted? If she likes it or accepts it, great! More time to be yourself.
And if she hates the dressing, why not give yourself--and...
lol!
I'm sorry you were offended, but many people consider fat jokes hurtful and offensive as well.
One can say the same thing about QUITTING CDing. It's not stopping that causes problems, it's the CD's reaction to stopping.
All I ask is that you try to understand what your wives are going...
Can YOU find any evidence that a MAJORITY cross dressers absolutely to dress--or they'll become ill? It's hard to tell from this forum,because abstinent CDers are unlikely to hang out here. But even...
I'm sorry you didn't get what you wanted. But it sounds like she's tolerating your dressing even though she doesn't like it. Did she know about the CD when you two married? If not, try to...
Acceptance on her part can also result in depression, moodiness, etc--for the same reasons. And "some kind of" reduction in dressing on the part of the CD is also an option.
If the wife is fine with it, who cares what she is? But THIS particular wife is turned off by it. But according to you, she, not the CDer, has to adjust and change.
As far as your talk about...
Why can't you? Why didn't you tell her b-e-f-o-r-e you married her? Where was this "Why can't I" attitude back then?
Your wife, assuming she's straight, needs a masculine man just as much as you...
Karen, I'm glad to hear that your courage (in telling your wife BEFORE you married) was rewarded with an honest and loving marriage. I hope some young CDs on here will read this and decide they want...
For goodness sake, she's not competing. She's a heterosexual woman so she's attracted to MEN not women. That's why she married a MAN.
Your posts are funny and all, but do you ever stop to think...
It's not disgusting. But if you're a man attracted to men, you're gay--whether you're wearing lacy panties or not. There's a big difference between CD and TS.
Why do the guys on this site cling...
Check out the number of male SOs on the loved ones thread. There's your answer. (Yes, there are fewer FtMs than the other way, but if there has ever been a male SO on there, I can't remember it.) ...
Sorry, I disagree. Bridget, in another thread, you said that one of her fantasies is to be a "bride,housewife,and lingerie model FOR HIM". If that's your fantasy, why are you pursuing women?
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So "just enough" is accepting cross dressing, while accepting the adult baby lifestyle is "too much acceptance?"
Crissy may be here to stay, but your wife won't be if you keep "surprising" her with more secrets, like that you dress a lot more often than she thinks. How do you think she'll take it once she...
I'm neither an adult baby nor a CD, but this post makes me angry as well. There's no real reasoning here, just "My lifestyle is normal, but anyone with your lifestyle needs therapy."
"The normal...
And adult babies consider their habit an internal childlike identity. When that first baby thread was posted, I went to an adult baby forum and found a thread comparing infantilism to other fetishes....
Some people would say the same about CDing though.Judge not lest..well, you know the rest.
I'm sure the adult children would think that there's a big gap between them and CDers also--but they'd believe that "THEY" are the more normal ones. That's because they're used to wearing diapers, so...
Ladies, most men are not CDers. And dockers are not aimed at CDers, they're aimed at those men who want to dress like men. There's no reason to be angry at them for advertising to their target group.
Sorry, but I don't it's jealousy that's at work. There are very few CDs who look better than GGs, even menopausal ones.
The problem is more that she's a heterosexual woman and she's attracted to...