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I have been guilty of the same, long absences etc. And of course the dreaded digital purge... (if only i had back all the images i've taken and deleted/lost over the years)

I think we just go...

Congratulations Julie! thats a big step, but doesnt end up being half as scary as we think it will.

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Hi Jennifer,
I can totally relate to not looking at (you could almost say avoiding) the mirror in guy mode, and an over abundance of it in girl mode. Until you brought it up, i don't think i even...

I've often wondered this myself, could there have been some first domino that started a chain reaction that brought me to where I am today?

When i was younger, even though i was the older brother,...

It would be nice to have something to answer the "why" question. I think that is something that we all struggle with at some point. And of course every time new research comes out, the questions...

I think a lot of people have answered similarly above. For me its about balance - and the method of achieving that balance may not be the same right now as it always has for you.

The more...

Hi Megan,
I think acceptance is something that we all struggle with, and happens on a number of levels. Here are a few things that have helped me reach my current level of acceptance.
1) having...

Congratulations on your first big event! As the others have said, it certainly gets easier each time. It seems crazy, and I didn't believe it, but it does. its pretty amazing at how few people "bat...

I agree with Lainie, Sales associates are paid to say hi and smile, where as your significant other isn't. There are real implications for her, for the sales associate, it is just another sale.
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I once offered a sweater to my SO because she couldn't find anything that would work with her outfit, and I had something that would.... She is also in the Don't ask Don't tell club, and she...

I've to have often thought about this topic, more from a psychological direction though. Dr. Lin Fraiser goes into this in depth in one of her papers:
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You are a lucky girl for sure!!! hoping someday i will be able to write a post like this one!!!
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Kaylee

Great to hear that its a fun place to go! I think Krysta & I are going to try and meet up there some time in February, maybe you would want to join us!

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Kaylee

Well, I'm a cartoon girl right now, and for those of you who have been on here a while, probably know that in the past i've posted my photo as my avatar, and i'm sure it can still be found in some...

I think you'll find that most 6ft + GG's wear flats most of the time (i realize it is a generalization, but does it does reflect my experience). I have 4 in my circle of friends, and I rarely see...

So enjoy Tamara's response...

I think the whole idea of this forum is for us to be able to be dressed in WHATEVER we see fit, as long as it is within the standards set forth by the admins, and be...

I don't think anyone requires you to wear pants if you have shaved legs... ;)

people really don't notice it, and if they do, they don't say anything.... In the couple times that people have said...

Ok, my 2 cents... you can call whatever you want a lie or not - BUT if you are:

stashing clothes in a duffel and saying that it's "just camping stuff" OR
going on a femme trip, and calling it a...

External Hard drive secured by Truecrypt (as mentioned by other posters).

Even the FBI would have trouble accessing it if they wanted too...(but why would they?) no chance of someone turning on...

its long hair for me! for some people it may be more difficult to manage, but for me, the happyness of having it far outweighs any negatives. all of the wigs that I ever had were FAR less...

The only time i've been slightly hassled in a restroom was in a lesbian bar. The line was out the door, and there was no line at the mens room. One of the GG's did give me a look, and said...

This is actually a very interesting discussion, i imagine from the outside, all of this looks pretty strange to most people.

In my opinion, most of us use these terms of endearment, and...

I like you have probably spent too much time trying to figure all this out... but, in my experience...

I've actually had the opposite feeling. It has been once i've been with a significant other...

I've only had two people ever mention it to me in the years that I've had my legs shaved. 1 was my sister, and she just asked about it, and i said I did it for cycling. (which was true) and the...

As i was reading this thread, i was trying to put into words my response... I think Kaz does a really good job of it.

Personally, the involvment of the GG's here is something that I so greatly...