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My question is simple, but complicated: what is the feeling for a closeted girl or open to a wife or SO girl, to go out for the first time? What was it like, from the onset to the end?

I remember being a little, little, boy wondering what it would like to wear panties and have long hair, although my hair was long enough for the day. I remember "tucking" at age six or seven in bed...

A white, satin sting bikini with pink hearts. It was Valentines day--a good alibi for a boy of 18.

I've been absent for a while, but I wonder why some of us will intentionally do things that will definitely be noticed. is it baby steps we take, at times, to have someone see something feminine. ...

It was a similar response--I wish I would have known when we started dating... Although I would love to be more open with her (not the world), it's likely not going to happen, so I will tread...

I had to come out to my wife a while back. It's still not good. But she's still here despite me. I have been busted, but have faith that maybe, she will at least allow me to underdress. You're...

I don't log on often. But of all the responses, your response seems to hit home. I am not often tempted, but temptation arises. Or curiosity. It's there. I cannot help it. But I can quell it,...

I liked what girls my age wore. I liked the skirts, blouses, and colors and wondered. Nothing made me want to wear what girls wear, but I wanted to.

I'm glad I started a gay/bi/cheating/whatever dialogue. As I stated, I was tempted, but did not act. Am I gay, if we gave it that narrowest definition? No-I do not see a guy and think sexual...

That is my moral compass. I would never cheat with another woman, although tempted. I may be tempted the other way, but believe my vow of fidelity and compass will lead me home. Dressing without...

Leonal posted a thread asking if we had been with a guy. This last weekend was one of my few days a year to shop, dress and enjoy myself a little. I bought Christmas gifts for my children, bought...

A pair of panties with hearts on them. I was 18 and told the checkout they were for someone special.

Leslie:
You have hit my life directly on the head. I'm in the same situation. And it hope for understanding, and little more.

I remember one time, maybe five or six. Mom had or talked me in to putting on a mini skirt. I don't know why she did it, but it stayed with me. I was a "boy," all "boy," footfall, baseball, dirt...

I've stayed quiet with my dressing and desires around my house, being in a DADT relationship, but I have done things that are on the edge of getting re-outed to my wife, such as wearing a little eye...

What to say is difficult. No person, regardless of anything that sets them apart, deserves such treatment. I hope you are "okay," not just physically, but truly okay. You are far, far braver than...

I started here looking for insight, and went off the grid for a time. Anybody, why do we (closeted hiders w/ DATD spouses) do what we do. For me, I don't know. I have done tiny, tiny things, to...

I had the same question. With my silence came a comment that we would not be. Ouch. I guess that's why. But, today, three years later, we are still tight, but don't discuss the issue. My wife...

I must walk lightly, because . . . the result is a big, big, stick. The loss of my wife and family who mean so much to me is a fear. It's a simple lessen--tread lightly on the ice...it may hold, it...

Stephanie47: I agree and appreciate your opinion of not pushing the envelope. My wife is my best friend and far more than that. I already feel low because of my history, dressing and desire to...

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I don't know how it works. But I always could and do continue to cross my legs in what would be considered a feminine manner. It's not a "girlie" pose, but more professional. I can...

Where does stress come into play with dressing, feminizing, with those who are DADT? Does anyone get stressed in everyday life whose SO knows, but doesn't want to talk about clothing, gender, etc.? ...

I don't know. Me? Genetics and the whole X, Y, or somewhat confused X, Y thing. What "caused" me? I guess, I suppose and I reason that is just, me. No external cause, no mother-issues, no...

I'm with Wanda 66, but wondered longer. I read other's experiences and think--what if, what will. This site is informative and the people insightful, kind and welcoming. So, to your topic, I tend...

No. Money cannot make me change the fact that I have brown hair, my build, my preference for a brunette over blond, salt over sugar, T-bone over pasta. Give me the cash to do something, fine, but...