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Aww, well thank you. I'm just feeling sensitive. I really like you all and don't like to have hard feelings.

Well maybe I would believe that if she didn't mention the forum and bickering amongst members. Which didn't have a whole lot to do with my thread. :confused3: I feel like a pretty consistent...

I guess I don't belong here. I mean every time I pose ideas, people feel attacked. I have no problem leaving if I don't fit into an already peaceful community. I did not come here with the intention...

Fair enough. I think the Tough Guise is generally dangerous, and why men commit about 90% of American violence, are the victims of most violence, and also commit about 98% of rape. Rape is a crime of...

I can fix that.
I have a habit of calling people by their last name (if it is visible). :doh:

Really good advice, Kieron. I think we do really need to keep in mind that men and women (and everyone else) come in all shapes and sizes. There are no expectations here. In this forum I see a lot of...

I am finding that a lot of transmasculine people feel forced in a very small box of what masculinity is... I personally am content with my fairly "androgynous" way. I am generally "more masculine"...

Fair enough. Though I did not make any implicit suggestion in any fashion. I was trying to prevent your lashing out because I had anticipated it but I guess that was simply an inevitable consequence.

You know.
I think I could make it through pregnancy but... I don't want to. I don't think I would feel that a child is a parasite or anything like that. I don't like the idea of pregnancy but I...

Hmmm. Despite being a tomboy, I never really got into fights. I was a brainy kid. I really preferred just sitting under a tree and talking. I think that was probably a "girly" thing to do, but I...

Before I was "FtM," (or knew it anyway), I considered myself a cross dresser. In my senior year of high school, I went to prom wearing a full suit. This was shortly after I admitted to myself that I...

Hmmm. I'll admit it. Someone who runs around in circles philosophically will bore me (if that's what you mean by getting a lot of *yawn*). I am new to this place so I don't know the climate or people...

Haha. I actually chose the smallest packer, a three-inch "packy." And for a strap-on my favorite was also the smallest they had where I got it... The bigger ones are just rigid and strange. I mean,...

I understand this very well (except I want to be the man obviously). I used to think I was some sort of autosexual, or attracted to myself or something... but I realized it's just that I'm more...

No, I agree. I will be having it sealed off and I hope they can surgically construct it into a normal-looking male perenium... Then no one can say "EWW VAGINA" anymore...
Yeah this is a bit off...

For me, it's always gay men shrieking and practically jumping up on a chair when they find out I don't have a penis, but have a vile vagina instead. It's just... Good God, man; could you get any less...

Yeah. Trust me, you're not alone. I've met trans guys who say, "Oh I date gay men all the time they don't have a problem with my VAGOO," and I get SO MAD. It's like, okay, what am I doing wrong,...

Good luck and best health, brother.

From a very young age I did not have a "strong sexuality." I just liked "whoever." Only within the last 4 or 5 years or so did I hear what pansexual was and realize, "Well, that's what I am." When...

Yeah. FtM in my mind for some reason always means, "Trans man! Transsexual! Male-identified!" etc. I need to expand my mind a bit. :doh:

Oh? I hope I didn't make a boo-boo. :bonk: It sounds like maybe I did.

Edit: OH NOW I THINK I GET IT.
FtM CDer as in drag kings!

I thought you meant FtMs who cross dressed.

I hate talking about my birth name, but for the sake of this discussion, I will share it.

My birth name is Sara Jeanne (first & middle). My new chosen name is Daniel James (again, first & middle)....

Yes, occasionally I will slip into a dress. If that's what you mean by "FtM cross dresser."

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It is a guilty pleasure, and I don't...

Pink as a "gay" or "feminine" symbol is odd for me, because pink used to be exclusively the boy color, blue the girl color. This switched sometime in the 40's, I believe.

Also, I personally have...

I identify as pansexual. Genitals and gender are irrelevant.

HOWEVER.
I have a lot more luck with girls. Gay cisgender men very rarely take my seriously because of my genitals (that is my...