I'm like Julie and Steffi: the longer I've dressed, the harder it is to change back. If I've just spent four days at Keystone full-time en femme, then putting on my drab clothes and driving home...
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I'm like Julie and Steffi: the longer I've dressed, the harder it is to change back. If I've just spent four days at Keystone full-time en femme, then putting on my drab clothes and driving home...
Steffi, I think this is a positive step. If she's able to picture you en femme without getting angry, then it sounds like progress given what you've told us before. That said, don't get your hopes up...
I will second Steffi's recommendation of Keystone. It can be a(n almost) full-week immersion experience. There are four full days of programs, so there are plenty of opportunities to learn new...
Thanks for posting. To answer Jenn's question, I don't know everyone's board names, but Sometimes Steffi is at the far right. I am behind and to the left of her. Samantha 2015 is in the back row and...
Looking forward to Keystone this year. I haven't been in three years and have really missed it. I can't wait to catch up with old friends and make new ones. If you see me there, don't be shy. Say...
I am so happy for you, and a bit envious. I wish I could tell my Mom, but I don't think it would go well. I have a gender fluid child (who I'll call J here) that she knows about, and my Mom is...
Coda: Today I am again working from home with a few Zoom meetings. This morning, I mentioned to my wife I was just going to throw a dress shirt on, and she asked "Are you going to wear heels?" She...
The other day I was working from home and only had a few Zoom calls. For the first time, I decided to try dressing for Zoom: regular men's dress shirt on top, but skirt, tights, and black...
Halloween did not start my crossdressing, but did help me to become more comfortable with it. I first wore tights in public one Halloween: I wore a unisex jester costume: hat, tunic and two-toned...
Before we got married, my wife and I spiced up the game of Jenga by writing sexy instructions on the blocks. If you removed the block, you had to do what it said. I put "dress as french maid" on one,...
I'm putting together a Scarlet Witch/Wanda Maximoff costume to pair with my wife's Agatha Harkness costume. We haven't been invited to any parties, but I plan to wear it while giving out candy on...
Great story, Gigi! Thank you for sharing. Please don't take this as carte blanche to wander around the house dress, but maybe your wife will be a little more welcoming to seeing you en femme. Let her...
Thank you for sharing your wonderful story, Ellie. I feel like I'm getting closer to that point with my wife. Hopefully one day. My kids have seen me in drag before, but I don't know when I'll feel...
Hi Emi, I can completely empathize. I went through a similar situation many years ago. The guilt built up to the point that I just had to tell my wife. Although you have crossed a major hurdle, don't...
Ooh, lucky you! Does your family know of your inclinations, or did they think you were just being silly? I would love to see a photo of you as Alice.
Like Lea, my acceptance came in stages. Participating in online forums like this was step one. Step two was coming out to my wife, and eventually having her accept that I wasn't broken. Step three...
Thanks for the thoughtful comments and defense, Lydianne. You get my point: VR is potentially another way to experience gender. Especially for young people who don't yet have the ability to buy...
Many people describe Rec Room as a VR Second Life, so you're not wrong there. I think the difference is the sense of "being there." When you are playing on a flat screen and look around, you realize...
For the past two years I have been a huge virtual reality (VR) enthusiast. Over that time, I wondered how the technology could be used to experience being a gender other than the one that was...
Welcome! There are plenty of married crossdressers on this site. I've been married for 18 years, and have been out to my wife for 16 of them. There were some pretty rough times when I first came out,...
Welcome! I hope you can find some comfort and advice here. The first thing you need to know is that this doesn't have to ruin your marriage. It is still possible for the two of you to be happy...
Absolutely, yes. Some years ago, my wife and I performed in a drag show for charity. We performed a song by Christina Aguilera and Nelly. Mimicking the video, I wore a flapper dress and she wore a...
Hi Kimberly. You are very brave for coming out to your wife, I can still remember the anxiety I went through before finally coming out. My wife was also very upset at the time, and it took a few...
For many years, I would only wear skirts and dresses when crossdressing. But a few years ago, I bought a bunch of leggings, and bought a pair of women's skinny jeans. When I went to Keystone this...
I have two daughters, ages 9 and 12, but I was out to my wife before they were both born. We jointly decided that I would not come out to the kids, but at the same time I'm not exactly in the closet...