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  1. Thread: Finally!

    by TheHiddenMe
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    There is a parking lot in the back (from memory)...

    There is a parking lot in the back (from memory) and a back door. It's a bit away from the main part of downtown Arlington Heights, IIRC (I have a friend who lives in Arlington Heights so I have been...
  2. Thread: Finally!

    by TheHiddenMe
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    As you're in Northern Illinois, find your way to...

    As you're in Northern Illinois, find your way to https://transformationsbyrori.com/index-https.html

    I haven’t been there in a LONG time (2005), but they had a wide selection of wigs, makeup, etc....
  3. Duly noted. The Gallup poll is referenced...

    Duly noted.



    The Gallup poll is referenced here.

    https://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?273392-Who-we-are&highlight=
  4. Here is the money quote: So if someone...

    Here is the money quote:



    So if someone crossdresses, and their wife knows about it, it MUST be to attract a man? Isn’t that her statement verbatim?

    Jodie_Lynn could have asked the question...
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    Again, I posted the definition of crossdressing,...

    Again, I posted the definition of crossdressing, and NOWHERE does it say it's a fetish. You are 100% wrong. For SOME CDs, there might be a fetish component. For many, there is none. The two are not...
  6. I don?t know, where do I go? Maybe here? ...

    I don?t know, where do I go?

    Maybe here?

    https://www.kandis-land.com/birthday-boys-part-2/

    Or you could read about it here?

    https://www.kandis-land.com/author/dee/
  7. My wife knows I dress; my clothes are in our...

    My wife knows I dress; my clothes are in our walk-in closet. Does she know I dress sometimes when I go out of town (like recently when I went to Milwaukee for a couple triathlons)? Maybe? Do I want...
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    From Merriam-Webster dictionary. If you wear...

    From Merriam-Webster dictionary.

    If you wear clothes designed for the opposite sex, by DEFINITION you are a crossdresser. You can be straight, gay, or bi.

    Transvestite is synonymous with...
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    You ought to be damn proud of yourself. You've...

    You ought to be damn proud of yourself. You've earned the right.

    You have shown time and again that by being prudently bold you can earn the payoffs.

    As CDs, we vastly overstate the risks and...
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    I can only guess that in the depths of your...

    I can only guess that in the depths of your despair in you know where you never dreamed this day was possible.

    And it was even better than winning at pickleball?????:)
  11. I think anyone reading this thread realizes you...

    I think anyone reading this thread realizes you are 99% venting and 1% looking for solutions.

    I don't think any one here can give you a solution, because we're not your wife.

    It seems to me...
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    We have a (now) 25 y/o son who dropped out of...

    We have a (now) 25 y/o son who dropped out of college a couple of years ago because of anxiety and other issues (some depression). He started therapy, and he was assessed (about this time last year)...
  13. If anyone is interested in how I dress when I'm...

    If anyone is interested in how I dress when I'm out, there are 22 blog posts here:

    https://www.kandis-land.com/author/dee/

    Or you could look here:
    ...
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    Here's the source. ...

    Here's the source.

    https://www.lesbianbarproject.com/

    The executive producer is Lea DeLaria, comedian (a self proclaimed dyke comedian) who was a year behind me in high school. She was in...
  15. So if you "blend" people won't notice that you're...

    So if you "blend" people won't notice that you're a CD?

    Or if you dress exotically people will automatically assume you're a CD?

    Nonsense.

    When I'm out, I never know who thinks I'm a guy in...
  16. Geez, I didn't know there was a rule book. I...

    Geez, I didn't know there was a rule book.

    I like going out.

    I like wearing dresses.

    I like wearing heels.

    If my goal was to dress like most women, I'd never get to wear what I like to...
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    Another suggestion for places to go; casinos....

    Another suggestion for places to go; casinos. I've been to five or so in three different states. They are almost always open, the women are in all shapes and sizes, things to do (I play video poker),...
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    I have several GG friends, but I met them in...

    I have several GG friends, but I met them in normal places.

    I'm not sure there are LGBT bars. There are gay bars, and a handful of lesbian bars (the number I have read is 21 lesbian bars in the...
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    A member of my transgender group is transitioning...

    A member of my transgender group is transitioning and is now playing tennis in a adult woman’s league. She says she has been accepted.

    As an aside, pre-pandemic I was at a bar following one of our...
  20. Thread: Alone

    by TheHiddenMe
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    Di, First, thanks for these types of questions...

    Di,

    First, thanks for these types of questions and your comments. For many, it's the only female perspective we get on a range of issues.

    My situation is a bit unusual. My wife and I have been...
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    Like most here, I have a guy voice. If someone is...

    Like most here, I have a guy voice. If someone is close enough to me to talk to me, I assume they have already figured out I might not be a GG.

    I've been out with GG friends before and have gone...
  22. What, no five-way chili? I think the smile...

    What, no five-way chili?

    I think the smile gives away the joy.

    So when are you going to do it again????
  23. Thread: Male arms

    by TheHiddenMe
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    I have the same issues, but have found a few...

    I have the same issues, but have found a few solutions.

    1. I shave my arms, and no one notices. If anyone asks, just tell them you're outside a lot and shaving made putting on sunscreen a lot...
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    I started about 20 years ago when I was in my...

    I started about 20 years ago when I was in my early 40's.

    The key for me was in October 2016 when I went to Sephora for a makeover. I had a great MUA, Julie, and I took notes and bought much of...
  25. Honestly, it's a hard question to answer. Part...

    Honestly, it's a hard question to answer.

    Part of the process is thinking about/planning my next time out. I can only imagine the comparison is a junkie needing their fix. What am I going to wear?...
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