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    Most of us have very deep seated shame and guilt...

    Most of us have very deep seated shame and guilt and our brain is accustomed to thinking that way. It takes awhile for that to change as it requires some re-wiring in various parts of the brain and...
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    Sounds wonderful. I often wear a hiking kilt on...

    Sounds wonderful. I often wear a hiking kilt on the trail along with a T-shirt that is obviously designed for women. I get a good deal of comments and they are mostly nice, but then there are those...
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    So exciting, isn't it? Congrats. You are hooked...

    So exciting, isn't it? Congrats. You are hooked now. :battingeyelashes: Like Marion, my first bra was purchased at Target. Was that an adventure!! I felt like everybody was staring at me and...
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    I personally have a problem with the definition...

    I personally have a problem with the definition of "crossdresser." The definition is good and logical so long as the basic concept of gender is binary. In fact, the concept of gender has drifted far...
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    Wonderful development for you. I think it shows...

    Wonderful development for you. I think it shows that for some it takes a long time for a wife to accept the need for dressing or the existence of another identity in her husband. You can read the...
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    Another 76'er here. I can remember back many...

    Another 76'er here. I can remember back many years ago when I looked back on my life as an epic disaster. But since then that view has changed to the "mostly good" perception you speak of. Thanks for...
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    A lot has been said here by a lot of experienced...

    A lot has been said here by a lot of experienced people and knowledgeable people. But I feel at this point there are a number of conflicts and you x-dressing may not be the main one in the big...
  8. Thread: Lifetime

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    This pattern is very common with parents and...

    This pattern is very common with parents and mature family members doing this, primarily to boys it seems. Perhaps they think if they do it then it is fine and won't have any impact, but if the child...
  9. Thread: First Kiss

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    Lori, I love your examination of this subject and...

    Lori, I love your examination of this subject and I agree with it. It is a lot more complicated than it seems on the surface.
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    I do a lot of those little tells now. Back before...

    I do a lot of those little tells now. Back before I accepted the strong female-like and intentionally mimicked men I was much more male-like in those ways. I catch my wife looking at me and...
  11. Thread: Female Walk

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    Wonderful analysis of walking motion and...

    Wonderful analysis of walking motion and differences between men and women, Jennifer. I can add that women with wide hips have their legs attached to the pelvis a bit further from the center line....
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    Been there, done that as well. I was amazed that...

    Been there, done that as well. I was amazed that I was told that I had an MI. Kidney stones were much worse.

    All the important people in my life know about my gender issues even though they have...
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    I think you look just fine and very lady-like in...

    I think you look just fine and very lady-like in a very acceptable way. You seem to have it down.
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    Sienna, welcome to CD.com. It is a tremendous...

    Sienna, welcome to CD.com. It is a tremendous resource for people like us.

    It really doesn't matter what you do to validate who you are so much as doing something that sends an affirmative...
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    I am so sorry for the loss of your wife, best...

    I am so sorry for the loss of your wife, best friend, and partner in life. I basically agree with what Lori said and I think those are very wise words. I also agree with Char that we all react to...
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    Good post, Allison. It is good that you took the...

    Good post, Allison. It is good that you took the therapist approach rather than the "I can fix it myself" approach. Sometimes that works, but therapists (my youngest daughter is one) seem have a...
  17. The sweaty bra syndrome even happens here in...

    The sweaty bra syndrome even happens here in Denver where humidity is so rare it is kind of a treat. Work in the sun does it. However, the real question is, considering our identities is it really...
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    I don't know much about autism but I do know that...

    I don't know much about autism but I do know that it is not particularly unusual for autistic people to show signs of transgenderism and gender reversal. Perhaps it goes with the discomfort they...
  19. Jessica, your rationale for not going all the way...

    Jessica, your rationale for not going all the way with transition make perfect sense to me and I think they speak to a genuine woman in that part of your identity. It also is consistent with modern...
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    The many stories told here of tension between the...

    The many stories told here of tension between the CD and wife are highly correlated with hiding that fact until after the relationship is established or even been married, like, forever. It is a...
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    I agree with Di, Char, and Crissy. Personally I...

    I agree with Di, Char, and Crissy. Personally I think you may need to relax a bit and perhaps not read too much into your wife's reactions. When we first come out and for some period afterwards we...
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    Unfortunately that is very true, Krisi. It is...

    Unfortunately that is very true, Krisi. It is like playing Russian Roulette with your life to not get a vaccination that is safe and effective. Natural selection is in overdrive right now and it...
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    I completely agree with Char. The drip-drip...

    I completely agree with Char. The drip-drip method without prior discussion and approval of a next step leaves her wondering and feeling very vulnerable. Marriage is supposed to be a sharing and not...
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    I tend to agree with Sara that there is a lot of...

    I tend to agree with Sara that there is a lot of phony support going around. I have observed the switcheroo in people.

    I was in my usual grocery store and noticed an unusually tall woman with a...
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    Oh, yes, she is definitely a keeper. Amazing. And...

    Oh, yes, she is definitely a keeper. Amazing. And some beautiful jewelry as well. I am going to venture a guess and say that I think she loves you - a lot.
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