Thanks for all your good wishes :)
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Thanks for all your good wishes :)
Long time no post! I turned 60 in June, so all pretence of spring-chickenhood is now futile. After coming out a couple of years ago to (some) friends and family, I sort of lost interest in actually...
Sounds like acceptance/ tolerance to me :) I knew things were settling down in a good way when my wife washed, ironed and hung up most of my femme gear .. although she obviously has a mild contempt...
Feel that way too these days. Last Tuesday I had a day off work, spent the morning in just a plain midi skirt, cheap top and a pair of flats. It was great. I did some housework and laundry then...
I'm no expert but I'd say yes. If your relationship with your sisters is good, that is? The benefit will be that you don't have to worry about whether your sisters know or not :) Big questions ..Do...
The more people I come out to as a CDer, the less need I feel to actually, physically, dress en femme. I have no desire to purge my wardrobe, the fact that I can have my skirts, dresses and lingerie...
Sounds like she's cool with it :) Hope it goes well!
Easy there, steady now! It doesn't really matter what us guys /girls think, does it? Ultimately only you can answer these questions. This is a very safe and friendly place but maybe it's best to...
Not anaesthetise. Alcohol, damaging drug that it is, is a disinhibitor. " In vino veritas" and all that!
" Fueled by hormonal change and a conviction that time is running out, they cross dress in more earnest." .. ah .. but for me it becomes more of an effort to actually dress up! I'll turn 60 next...
Oh just get your frock on and enjoy! Just be you. Stuff "guilt". Feminine/ masculine, they just come and go in waves for me, you get used to it in time, no biggie :)
Since I came out, first to my wife, then to close family and friends, I find that I don't actually dress very often, sometimes now it feels that it was a phase that I passed through over 50+ years!...
Yes, absolutely, things quieten down when you hit a certain age. You don't see very many women in their 50s or 60s dressed ultra-feminine, do you? Whilst I'd never want to see my fem gear leave my...
That's got me thinking! So the answers won't be coming any time soon.
I had sex with a man once, about 35 years ago ( not en femme, experimenting with " normal" gay sex) , but it was a fraught, edgy experience, didn't really enjoy it and I don't think my partner did...
d. but having established my "rights", I don't often exercise them. I'm "out" to my wife ( of course ),my step-mother, ( but not my real mother, who may suspect and I don't think would be freaked) ...
It's a great feeling when you come out to close family and friends and they're ok with it :)
Don't know if I'm alone in this, but since my step-daughter, sisters and some good friends got to know,...
I bought a pair of tights for my mum, then just had to try them on ... and kept them until my step-mother found them in my coat pocket :(
But the first thing I actually bought for ME ( mail order)...
If that's where you feel you're at and it's what you want to do then great ... I wish you peace and happiness .. but for most CDers I think life is a bit more complex. My wife, close family and...
Some very good and interesting points, Reine. I don't think most CDers do think like women, fundamentally, although you just can't generalise, we're all individuals, and at different places on the...
When it comes to cars, it's always been an area where I've chosen "men's" vehicles, I like a fairly heavy, fairly powerful car with manual transmission, one that can take me four hundred miles (...
TracyUK,
I'm tall too, I've spent money on lovely dresses but even the ones from Long Tall Sally are a bit too short in the bodice, they hang in my wardrobe to be admired but I rarely wear them,...
Just feels free and fun and natural and pretty and sensual, expresses the girl in my soul :) Not a theory, more a fact x
58 Cornwall UK.
I remember very clearly. I must have been three or possibly just turned four. I looked in a bedroom drawer and found a pair of my gran's knickers, green lace-trimmed (in some kind of artificial silk...